I love this but I think this only works if you have pinches with emotionally healthy individuals..
2024-07-08 00:05:15
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Bora Kim :
So I found that this only works if the other person chooses to listen. When I’ve said things nicely and the other person says oh ok, I found most times they don’t really listen hahah
2024-07-07 16:42:18
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Nikky :
RelationshipI feel like I’m constantly constantly nagging :(:(
2024-07-09 13:29:54
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matth4560 :
So basically you’re validating many people’s desires to communicate to stop issues from snowballing and our gut is right.
2024-07-12 03:08:03
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Nefynhop :
Learning how to safely speak for the pinches is vital but a difficult habit to maintain….especially for people-pleasers/codependents ✌️
2024-07-07 12:26:56
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user5571204856115 :
Very theoretical :( Examples would help.
2024-07-07 07:30:11
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HerbandWellnessNerd :
My ex was always irritated that I even brought up the small irritations.
2024-07-08 10:41:52
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Steve Sims :
spent 34 years and two marriages not dealing with pinches or crunches. built up a mountain of resentment....never learned how to handle pinches without creating crunches.
2024-07-07 11:10:45
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GoOutS1deAndPlay :
is that way my partner points out every little thing I do wrong? This is helping the relationship?
2024-07-07 05:41:50
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V :
It’s also okay to address pinches after tension has died down slightly so it doesn’t escalate.
2024-07-08 02:43:28
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Vishal Talwar :
Physiologically, brain links more memories with that particular pinch, if pinch happens often. With time, with more volume, the result in brain is crunch whenever that same pinch happens.
2024-07-27 02:21:09
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Daveed :
So “Broken Windows” for feelings ?
2024-07-07 14:43:22
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comment creator :
Ok how do we address the pinches without making it seem like we’re always complaining about them when we hang out??
2024-08-05 04:48:57
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Sarah_nottheoneyouknow :
Honestly question. Does this mean that the "pick your battles" argument with kids is not the way to go?
2024-07-07 05:08:06
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lauraz7777 :
Yes! Thank you!
2024-07-07 21:27:49
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Daniel Marchant :
Bringing up pinches inevitably makes noticeable those people who are willing to build a meaning relationship, or those who are not
2024-07-11 10:14:29
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✨💫🗡️MUHAFIZ🗡️💫✨ :
Nice dress…!😎😎😎
2024-07-07 05:16:55
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Cristina :
On another note…your hair is 🔥
2024-07-26 12:03:27
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Art Connex U :
Hugs
2024-09-27 13:25:14
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jorim :
hi, how do I mitigate pinches where the person is a high anxiety perfectionist who struggles with even small changes?
2024-08-10 08:55:52
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Terminator :
wow tha k you
2024-07-28 06:28:03
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LisaTexas99 :
Makes sense 💪
2024-08-01 19:36:44
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carrrrlz :
a lot of guys call this nagging but pinches aren’t a big deal and shouldn’t cause a ton of emotional distress, discuss it calmly and get through it quick and you’ll be so much closer for it!!
2024-07-30 16:17:54
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Steve :
My ex thrived on crunches.
2024-07-07 09:10:43
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