This conversation has happened in fanfic for years but I’m glad it’s spreading over to publishing.
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Lia Shurtz :
Genuinely curiously where Song of Achilles stands. I love that book so much, but I’m also willing to reevaluate the media I love after hearing other perspectives and learning from others.
2024-07-08 18:42:33
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Measured and Slow :
From experience: godspeed to you on this comment section 😭💕
2024-07-08 18:04:07
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I am here :
This is why it’s not just about representation on the page, but diversity of authors is so important
2024-07-08 18:45:15
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Uma Gahd :
I ✨FEEL✨ this, but I have a hard time explaining it to others, esp. with examples. Even without using specific books/media, could someone make a video contrasting what these two "styles" look like?
2024-07-08 18:28:56
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jt_mcsplosion :
I want a space opera that as part of the ensemble cast includes a himbo space marine and a nervous science nerd who are both boys and fall in love. They then keep getting separated but they end up
2024-07-20 14:46:18
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KD Ellis :
as an author who writes MM, I worry about this so much. I never want it to come across as fetishizing! but I'm also not cishet, even tho that's how I'm often perceived 😭
2024-07-09 00:31:07
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booksohmy48 :
Do you have recommendations of books that celebrate the love?
2024-07-08 19:33:49
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Stephanie :
✨thaaaank you. I've been saying this for years and NO one wants to have this conversation ✨
2024-07-08 17:57:23
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TheLionsMother :
can you give examples of books doing this so I can avoid them?
2024-07-09 17:40:05
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Cas ✨🦌 :
Currently reading you should be so lucky by cat Sebastian, gives brutal reality of navigating queer existance in the 60s but also manages to show queer joy in a really lovely ballange
2024-07-08 18:51:50
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Rowan :
I have noticed that a lot of the m/m book recommendations on booktok tend to be mostly written by Cishet women. second-most I've seen has been femme presenting queer people, then masc presenting
2024-07-08 19:05:12
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Hales :
I had wondered if I should stop reading MM romance 😭 maybe this is my sign
2024-07-08 17:48:48
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Daniel Alexander Allen :
nothing to add, just commenting to boost this
2024-07-08 17:55:07
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Jordyn :
I have a hard time with MM romance because of this, I would love your recommendations!! Cishet WW writing MM often comes off like cishet WM writing women.
2024-07-08 19:20:32
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Allison :
I find if it's in a library's or bookstore's recommendations you're usually golden. Sometimes there's good lists on goodreads or story graph.
2024-07-08 18:13:02
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RomanceLover :
One of the challenges of this conversation is that romance as a genre removes a lot of lived experiences to wrap up relationships in a happy bow. So separating the layers out is difficult.
2024-07-09 00:37:32
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🦋 Sugar 💙 :
I loved The series Cut and Run!!!! Totally agree with you.
2024-07-08 17:40:53
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DanelleMcEdge :
My first interaction with MM was fan fiction generally written by people who cared about the characters. But boy is there some fetishized stuff out there as well.
2024-07-09 14:31:44
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Emmy :
I love mm romance and they are in my life and they also are reading the books I’m reading. Also I have never seen any FF romance books in my local stores. No one ever recommends ff either. For why??
2024-07-09 14:03:45
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Shay :
the more MM books I read, the more I'm seeing this.
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Kbear :
Love this!! How do we celebrate the full lived experience without diving into trauma exploitation?
2024-07-08 18:47:29
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NoMatterBoo :
how do you feel about interview with the vampire lol
2024-07-09 15:40:17
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friendly.fyre :
You so eloquently and thoughtfully explain concepts I've stumbled and stuttered trying to articulate to people. As an old guy, I remember eating up every piece of representation I could find and 1/2
2024-07-08 20:45:37
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CardiologyNerd23 :
I am a nonbinary/gender fluid (afab/ commonly femme presenting) person who is writing an MM romance and including lived experiences of myself and the queer people who are my closest friends. 1
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