@her_mind_speaks: Unhealthy attachments are sending people into the depths of despair….#fyp #HealingJourney #avoidantattachment #anxiousattachment #narcissist #traumabond #chasing #inconsistency #mixedsignals #emotionallyunavailaible #sutuationship
The problem is, by the time you see the hot and cold avoidant behavior it’s too late. U could cut it off that day and still be in the depths of despair for months.
2024-07-09 12:44:41
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carriemayotte :
I am 10 months out. I am starting to heal. I never ever want to feel like that again. It was literally like hell on earth,the repetition compulsion kept me in a state of deep despair. I am free now!
2024-07-09 22:29:06
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Jasamb03 :
Yes it’s like a rebirth … constantly rejecting people who you know will take you down that same toxic path
2024-07-09 12:47:28
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wildthingsonmi :
He pulled me back in a 4th time and I feel this is my last time. The avoidant man inadvertently healed deep core wounds in me. Feeling secure enough now to leave for good if he can’t grow up soon
2024-08-08 15:00:31
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Carina :
I'm 51 and have had to deal with a dismissive avoidant...its over but 10 months then a mixture of slow fade then instant discard..hands down it's been the worst thing that has ever happened to me 💔
2024-10-07 11:53:45
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Milly-lou :
Been going through this last 4 years it’s ruined my life I’m a shell of who I was
2024-07-10 08:19:51
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Barbie :
it's debilitating
2024-07-09 22:00:39
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Chris90£ :
Thankyou so much for sharing your knowledge, you explain it so well: 💔
2024-08-03 19:08:53
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💙Rikster💙 :
It was so difficult to understand what was happening… he was triggering me, I was triggering him. I’m healing. I hate that we didn’t figure it out before it was too late. Both parties must be willing.
2024-07-18 17:31:06
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Myownbestme :
Happened to me! I was a mess over a hot and cold situationship 😭😭
2024-07-10 02:00:16
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Hatley :
Worst 2 year experience of my adult life
2024-07-25 20:56:12
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Davina’s Life Journey :
This is the toughest I’ve ever across in my entire life…heartbreaking
2024-07-24 15:26:33
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adr1 :
It almost killed me. I think a lot about the people it did kill. I have endless love for the people who’s gone through this
2024-07-12 06:53:44
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Courtney Love :
Thank you so much for sharing you knowledge. It’s so important and it’s so sad. I come in and out of healing, and then I meet someone who’s hot and cold and it’s almost like I get reprogrammed
2024-07-10 01:52:04
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Audrey :
thank you so much.
2024-07-25 14:45:07
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Deborah Wain :
14 months free after 25yrs in trauma bond. at peace ✌
2024-07-09 21:59:35
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Wanjiru :
no because my nervous system has been on fire for 10 months now 😁
2024-07-19 12:52:31
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nicolameikle0 :
It’s brain damaging! I got so many health conditions!
2024-07-09 12:29:24
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Lauren :
You do such a good job of really getting into the experience of the anxious person. Thank you so much. You’re doing important work.
2024-07-31 03:12:23
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kell :
not worth the heartbreak 💔 best be single
2024-07-14 23:43:42
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sunflower association 🌻 :
This is me to a T. So glad I’m on the other side even though it was painful to let go
2024-07-25 16:44:13
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Madi🩵Son🧿⏳🔮♉♀️☮️☯️♾️👁️🗨️ :
Ugh yes ... literally within an inch of my life. I almost died because of this.
2024-07-09 12:45:06
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irreplaceable :
Yes it’s so damaging
2024-07-09 12:51:00
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