Truth. Things will come to mind randomly and I think how/why did I put up with or deal with that?
2024-07-13 14:33:04
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👹 :
started realizing AFTER 6 months of no-contact. Repressed abusive memories still coming up 3+ years later.
2024-07-13 16:37:08
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AJ2021yes :
3 years
2024-07-14 03:19:58
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JT :
the first 2 years were really eye opening. also, I didn't learn until almost 4 years out that I'll be suffering from CPTSD for the rest of my life
2024-07-13 12:59:41
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heather_shari :
My god I became a different person. He would do the most unsound things I would never even think to do to another human
2024-07-13 12:19:21
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Shellybums48 :
I completely relate!! When the realisation hits, it’s incredibly hard. I’ve been out 8 weeks and still having nightmares, flashbacks, very sensitive to loud noise
2024-07-13 10:02:03
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KRTS :
We cut off talks, only for me to discover months later they lied about their real name to me after 3yrs. My original villain story.
2024-07-13 12:59:41
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Andi Smith :
29 years, it took a 5th affair and 29 years of marriage 😢🤬
2024-07-13 14:58:11
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🌸 Alchemama 🌸 :
43 years…
2024-07-13 13:28:29
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alyssa grace :
I truly had no idea what was going on, he was my first serious relationship & told me that all of our issues were normal for a healthy relationship. I only started realizing after the breakup when I
2024-07-17 08:09:55
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Katrina Heilman :
9 years
2024-07-13 10:08:37
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Guyel :
7-8 months. It was like me connecting the dots and how I never saw the signs. Sometimes I even think I’m being the victim but not after I read the book called dark manipulation
2024-07-13 15:58:10
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☺️ :
This summer after distance from him. Havent touched him for two months soon. Out of the gaslight fog I see who he truly is, but still its hard to stay away from him. 🥺💔
2024-07-13 10:22:24
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Ellie :
2 months
2024-07-13 22:57:29
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Maura The Maker :
Almost two years on the first. Then started to see what my kids meant by "Mom, you have a type." That's when my eyes opened fully.
2024-07-13 10:56:06
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John :
For sure, almost 2 years since I became aware I'm still figuring out thing, some I still don't understand. Sucks, I just want to forget.
2024-07-13 12:46:54
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toppictoday :
My ex was a liar and always gaslighted me. After I left her, she blamed me. Said I never loved her .
2024-07-13 10:58:42
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Jenny :
I was saying to my sister how good of a guy he was even after he brutally discarded me. Then realize he wasn’t and now year after divorce and I still am so torn yet he shows me who he is all the time!
2024-07-13 11:49:50
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Maxtell71 :
on year 6, getting almost normal, 18 year relationship. My parents were narcs, I'm black sheep, so my recovery is from 47 years of abuse...
2024-07-13 13:10:49
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✨💫K r y s s :
7 years...🥺💔 but better late than never💪
2024-07-13 11:06:12
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heathererwin3 :
Why does it seem now that it has been seven monthes no contact I’m not angry anymore.
2024-07-14 00:06:32
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