@what_healthy_couples_do: Trust is foundational to healthy relationships. Regardless of the specifics of how it was broken, finding a path to restoring it is critical. I’ll often find the “offending partner” arguing that they’re being punished by what the other partner is asking them to do to rebuild trust. This response shows a self focus that doesn’t grasp the reality and severity of what has occurred. If you’ve damaged the trust in your relationship your first step is to lean towards your partner, asking “what would you need to see from me to start rebuilding trust”. Then don’t argue. Look for every way you can to say yes to what your partner needs. What it takes to rebuild trust is both subjective and personal. You may not agree with what your partner needs but that doesn’t make it any less true or necessary. #marriage #affair #affairs #healthyrelationships #gottman #gottmaninstitute #relationshipcoach #relationships #datingtips #marriageadvice

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billyjimbob88
Jimmy joe bob :
If you are a Overthinker, go ahead and leave you will never quit thinking about it
2024-07-19 14:48:12
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leeban04
leeban04 :
Can we please talk about how answering all the wounded partners questions is also critical.
2024-07-16 11:36:48
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deegilmore7
DeeGilmore11 :
and you should mention not just for a week or two, and not to just get sneakier about doing again
2024-08-07 21:48:11
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hiimchristina..._
christina :
he lets me look through his phone now but sometimes i don’t know what i’m even looking for. they can just delete stuff right 😭😭
2024-07-31 17:13:54
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lotusmama101
ShanaLee✌️💗🌱🌕🌛🌜🌝💫⭐️🌻🌈 :
Is it really possible to get past it ..
2024-07-16 04:20:31
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iamviraga
Viraga :
he won't respect my boundaries. he keeps trying to hug and hold me, but that's to make hom feel better, not me
2024-08-08 03:15:52
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nh_3147
Nichole Howerton :
What if the wounded partner never sets boundaries and never wanted to talk about anything.
2024-07-19 00:07:27
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user7226819339701
Mark :
Affair, leave because they will do it again
2024-08-05 22:00:55
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aljo20000
Alex :
tried that, is not worth it, it's better to leave and find someone else
2024-08-07 05:52:27
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raveplumbing
Rave Plumbing :
She is not doing this and I feel she should just leave but says she is not leaving because her attorney said not to
2024-07-18 04:47:09
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rope_feet
Billy Barnes :
Yeah but for how long
2024-07-24 04:55:45
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tewk03
Amber Casey :
What if you don't know what you need to restore that trust? The only thing I want is to wake up and this all be a bad dream.
2024-07-14 19:49:37
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naybabe84
naybabe84 :
you can't restore trust these days.
2024-08-01 21:36:37
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havingagoodetime
Ashley :
Welllllp, looks like I’ll never heal then, my husband thinks he has done no wrong 💔😑
2024-07-20 06:23:34
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whocareslol65
whocareslol65 :
I’ll never trust again! There’s no restoring anything
2024-07-18 17:00:31
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faithallison13
Faith Allison :
facts
2024-07-18 17:19:24
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autumnrichardson4
Autumn Richardson :
I can’t move forward nor do I think I want to🤷🏼‍♀️
2024-07-26 12:26:29
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redsoxdiva
redsoxdiva :
when you tell them what you need to heal and move on and instead they tell you that you'll get what they feel like giving you 🙄
2024-07-19 02:02:26
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jewels8689
Jewels :
Lol! Never, my ex called it “ too many restrictions “ “ I can’t live like that… out the door he went. No more disrespect, am done
2024-07-17 21:48:52
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gertic8
gertic8 :
I can honestly say, no matter what he does or says, I CAN NEVER TRUST HIM AGAIN...HE HAS TO LIVE WITH THAT SINCE I HAVE TO LIVE WITH WHAT HE DID
2024-07-18 21:06:51
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oceans213
☀️🌙🪐⭐️ :
Can I just show this to him :(
2024-07-17 12:16:22
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rinkydinkydo
Rinkydinkydo :
Third party affair of broken trust my ex will never be able to restore trust bc he made me an option when I was once priority
2024-07-18 01:38:56
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lotusmama101
ShanaLee✌️💗🌱🌕🌛🌜🌝💫⭐️🌻🌈 :
What are those boundaries, and actions , and steps
2024-07-16 04:20:56
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glinda_56
user4468713886130 :
🤭🤭🤭
2024-07-21 03:06:04
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wadewalton1
Wade Walton :
💯
2024-07-16 17:52:50
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