Emmarie
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fraktoast :
You tell her she can do anything she WANTS to put her mind and effort behind but that she is not beholden to her gifts and that just because you are good at something doesn’t mean you have to do it.
2024-08-04 00:37:44
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Bee 🐝 :
Perhaps tell her she's worked really hard at skating and that she can do anything she puts her mind to? It is complimentary and emphasizes the effort she is putting in without pressure
2024-07-15 12:31:57
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Cameron :
let her love it with all her heart. when she needs you to show up - show up HARD and show up LOUD. when she feels discouraged hold her and tell her it’s ok if she doesn’t like it anymore (1/2)
2024-07-15 16:21:43
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Vex Mania :
"I am so proud of you, and I hope you're proud of yourself for how hard you've been working towards what you want. what always matters most is you loving doing it"
2024-07-15 20:36:51
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Emmarie :
why did i pick the worst clip of her skating 🤣🤣
2024-07-15 12:27:05
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Belinda Bindi Whitfi :
tell her you will continue to show up for her for as long as its her passion and her dream and you'll never pressure her to be the best just will ask to try her best will unconditional love ❤️
2024-07-15 13:31:31
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A Hill :
You could acknowledge her hard work. I would also suggest letting her have a break (for a season or not go to a practice or something) if she seems to need one or asks for one.
2024-07-15 15:51:34
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T :
ur already supporting ur kid for who they are not what they do! success! if who they are lands them accomplishments, those trophies are just like gifts- rewards of life, not justifications for value
2024-07-15 13:54:03
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ptaylordactyl_ :
My coworker went pro in Boston!! The ice was her lifeeee. Hockey gear in her car 24/7
2024-07-15 12:35:35
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Madison :
Praise her effort and passion. "wow you worked so hard today" "I love how happy you are when you play!" "I'm so proud of you for following your dreams" and be her biggest cheerleader in losses too
2024-07-15 14:28:48
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Ali Black :
You support her by telling you how proud you are of how hard she is working. She is learning so many things like teamwork. And keep letting her lead. If she wants to do it (within reason) let her and
2024-07-15 16:57:25
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katie62749 :
You can and should acknowledge her dedication, hard work and growth. I do get where you’re coming from. But I think the big difference is supporting not only the activity but supporting her choice to
2024-07-15 13:42:59
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&REA :
Encourage her dreams and tell her to be true to herself and values along the road
2024-07-18 01:25:06
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Lainey Grace :
I played competitive sports growing up, my dad always told me “if you’re happy then I’m happy and if you are no longer happy doing this then we will find something else that makes you happy”
2024-07-28 05:55:22
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Matteo :
Tell her! When I was a kid, people pushed me too hard and it made me not want to do it anymore. It scares me to tell you how great/amazing/talented you are, bc I don’t want you to feel pressured
2024-07-16 05:50:47
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Camy Darbonne Kisting :
You being there encouraging and bringing her to do what she loves is supporting her! Also when she reaches a goal doing it celebrate her! But it looks like you’re doing just fine mama! You should be
2024-07-15 22:06:01
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Longerdecember :
Maybe ask her how she wants to be supported- she might have insight into what she’s wanting. You can both support and acknowledge someone & hold that they can stop at any point without fear of anger.
2024-07-15 19:34:28
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ya boy, Fynn :
Go to her games! Be her #1 fan! Make silly little signs and show up with your whole family supporting her! Tell her you believe in her and show interest in her sport, and that will go a long way!
2024-07-16 00:52:01
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Hailey :
Something along the lines of your worked so hard and im so proud of you never give up on your dreams you can do anything you want in this life when you work hard
2024-07-16 15:15:19
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Meg :
let her take breaks when she needs to, and don’t compare her to her peers - keep her passion for hockey alive, and then even if she doesn’t go pro she’ll remember it fondly
2024-07-15 22:33:57
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actually a fish :
ask her about the fun she’s having, take pressure off of achievements and remind her why she does it
2024-07-15 21:52:46
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katthevamp :
When it gets hard, help her figure out if she wants to push through, because she loves the sport, or if she loves the attention it gets her. If it's the first, great! If it's the second, encourage her
2024-07-15 20:26:42
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something went wrong :( :
The trauma doesn’t come from being praised/recognized for your accomplishments, but from being invalidated and feeling worthless when/if you no longer want to do it.
2024-07-15 16:25:25
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Kelly :
The difference is you don’t want her to do it for you. You want her to follow her dreams not yours. It’s ok to tell her how good she is and help her believe in herself.
2024-07-15 14:26:59
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courtlez. :
If she continues to university level then she could for sure get drafted. It’s not impossible. It’s amazing she found something she’s so passionate about so young in life. You support her by 1/
2024-07-15 13:28:57
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🦥 Tay 📖📚 :
you tell her she can do anything she wants and that hard work can pay off 🥰
2024-07-15 13:01:11
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Zeer0ye :
"keep working hard if this is what you want, but know that your success does not define you or how much I love you."
2024-09-26 19:53:44
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Obaynne Dawnstar :
my mom still gets mad at me for giving up singing (because of debilitating anxiety) and it's been 20 years since I did that! but I could have earned wedding singer income lmfao
2024-09-19 20:51:21
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🥰🇨🇦🏳️🌈🥰 :
You can always support her in her hard work and efforts! She deserves to know when she’s done a good job, but you can also be supportive if she ever decides it’s not for her anymore. 🥰
2024-09-17 09:03:23
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NoxRidley :
The best support is being there, every practice you can manage, every game. Get her the good stuff even tho it costs a bit more. Quality will help her thrive. Just be there, and cheer her on.
2024-08-07 18:15:21
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😌 :
show up to every game, cheer your heart out, and ask her what she wants! if she wants to go bigger, help her figure out how to make that happen.
2024-07-31 09:28:47
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marg :
🥰🥰🥰
2024-07-23 13:55:48
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imsarah78 :
Ask her how she thinks she is doing, let her know that you notice how good she is and acknowledge accomplishments. No demands, just support and acknowledgement. There is zero harm, in being proud.
2024-07-19 18:16:03
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payton :
Ask her if she feels proud of herself and encourage it! “I saw you accomplished *this goal*! You must be proud of yourself!” She’ll know you see her and build confidence in herself. 🥹
2024-07-19 03:40:11
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Alexis A :
Don’t ever tell her it’s stupid or dumb. Show up to her games, cheer her on. Make it known you are proud. My dad hated I played soccer growing up, and that shit hurt. I played for 15 years.
2024-07-19 01:34:04
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ChangingNightMare :
You support it, because it is HER idea. Your support, unless she decides differently. I have seen the kids that are pushed and the kids want to be playing(happy kids).
2024-07-18 22:49:26
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🇵🇷 :
Not acknowledging it is just as hurtful as being angry she doesn’t want to do something.
2024-07-18 12:07:10
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Hails 🍉 :
she CAN do anything- but she doesn't HAVE to. that is important
2024-07-17 11:27:19
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Ashleigh❤️ :
Your proud of her but always remember to do what she wants ❤️
2024-07-17 07:56:03
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MOTHS___ :
be excited with her for milestones/big moments and make sure you put an emphasis on her hard work rather than "talent"! it will help her to understand that she's good because she's putting in effort!
2024-07-17 02:50:33
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Georgiaoqueef :
From a teacher’s perspective, we encourage the act of learning and growing, less so the result of the learning and growing. Try that.
2024-07-16 21:45:18
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Thislittlelifeofmine :
Be the woman u needed back then. Ur a wonderful mother I’m sure u will break through this barrier. Ur her biggest fan xx
2024-07-16 17:56:14
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Talia :
Just keep letting her do it. Maybe see about putting her in more advanced levels.
2024-07-16 14:52:01
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StacyNicole :
Praise the effort she puts in. When she talks about future plans, ask her questions and let her take the lead. In where the conversation goes.
2024-07-16 04:28:49
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HenryHelpingstine :
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2024-07-16 03:46:32
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AMcCaslin :
keep your praise focused on her. "you are really proud of yourself" you worked so hard and you got it. if you do I statements keep them about her character not the outcome.
2024-07-16 01:42:19
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pato as in duck :
There’s a lot of sports psychology articles online that might guide you in the right direction. Usually better to focus on the effort she has put into the sport rather than just how good she is at it.
2024-07-16 01:06:43
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