@tikabobika: My biggest advice for new moms finding themselves again is to find something that gives you a lot of joy (can be as simple as reading a book), and holding onto it, mom guilt free! For me, it was fashion— and that’s what helped me reconnect to my pre-baby mind/body. It’s an exhausting journey and it doesn’t help when people will make you feel so guilty if you do anything that’s for yourself and not your child. I am just a mom trying to normalize that it’s ok for mothers to have an identity outside of just being a mom. Don’t read that wrong, my son will always by my #1 🙏🏽. However, I don’t think moms have to give up their friendships/passions/interests in the name of motherhood either. #momthoughts #momstyle #momlife #momfashion #cozyoutfits #momstruggles #happymom #momootd