When someone chooses you when they are perfectly content being alone. They only want you for you. Keep them around.
2024-07-17 21:39:35
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🦋 INES 🦋 :
DO NOT RELT RELY ON THEM FINANCIALLY EITHER
2024-07-28 19:17:41
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April Edmonson :
We grossly underestimate the true challenge of integrating two lives.
2024-07-17 14:06:14
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stephanie 🌷 :
I think my frontal lobe just developed after hearing this
2024-07-17 16:24:09
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Kami :
I took two years to work on myself and decided I was better off alone and when I decided that, two months later I met the love of my life. This is so real!!
2024-07-17 20:19:03
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Lauren :
But that’s what dating IS.. getting to know yourself in relationships . You can’t do that without dating. Someone has to be practice !! 😆
2024-07-17 12:11:05
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Stormi :
1000% all of my past relationships with harmful people happened because they filled a void that I didn't know how to fill. I since figured it out, and now it's rare for me to be interested in someone
2024-07-17 11:12:20
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Ana Marie Pamias :
Now on the opposite end of the spectrum, getting into that headspace to where you’re OVERLY okay with being alone, can also be your downfall.. (it’s me, also not fun)
2024-08-01 04:37:56
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Emilia :
I don’t think I’ve ever heard it explained this way
2024-07-17 08:10:35
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DevilDonut :
Man, it’s gonna be a loooong time before I’m ready to date again huh?
2024-07-17 16:52:35
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Nancy🪴 :
Thank you for reminding me. I was legit sobbing bc I wanted to break no contact but this is the reason why I needed to go no contact. I want to feel secure with myself and know I can be alone.
2024-07-18 08:03:53
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OnaJourney :
For me, it was about emotional regulation… I had anxiety and I would turn to my partner for soothing. When I figured out I could do this for myself, I became a much more powerful, self-loving person!
2024-07-17 11:56:48
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Sarah :
I am absolutely in love with my man, yes there are things I need to work on, would I be very very sad if we broke up yes but could I build myself up again and move on and build a new life, yes.
2024-07-22 03:54:18
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Matthew Nuttall :
building a life you love takes years. It is a foreign experience for most people to learn to love themselves and then invite someone else in.
2024-07-18 15:11:39
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Dog_dad_FL :
Ppl try pressuring me to date, but I’m taking time to work on personal ish. Wouldn’t be fair to waste someone else’s time or patience
2024-07-17 13:17:41
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🧈🔪 :
See but my man and I are obsessed like “now that I have you and ik how much more beautiful you make my life why would I ever let you go” not like “I need to fill this partner sized hole in my heart”
2024-07-18 04:08:19
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KARI :
Perfectly explained 👏🏼 This is exactly why I’m taking time for myself right now. I’m not where I want to be. I wouldn’t date someone like me, so that tells me I have work to do
2024-07-17 21:22:40
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gabrielmarquez337 :
I'm glad I took this time to take a walk with you and hear this good advice
2024-08-01 02:34:49
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Jervon Thompson :
you helped me more in the past five minutes then anyone has in my 22 years of life. thank you
2024-07-18 17:08:37
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Elijah Siebert :
This was so eye opening
2024-07-17 20:35:09
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Dandelion :
If you put your happiness on someone else you will never be happy. They’ll never meet your standards for them.
2024-07-17 11:08:51
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Kelli :
Nobody is living an optimum complete life. If that were true, then there would no feeling of wanting a partner. No need to advance in your career. No desire for anything more and humans always want
2024-07-28 14:37:52
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Ellie :
Working on all of this now. It’s kinda fun going on this self discovery journey. Your video was super well said!
2024-07-18 01:05:27
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chunli0717 :
my thing is now that ive reached a point where i genuinely enjoy my company i have hobbies i have a job i like and just overall pretty fulfilled the idea of spending that much time with someone…
2024-07-21 03:43:21
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Sylvester :
I think meeting someone you love so much that without them and you couldnt imagine existing without them is also valid?? Partners should add to your life. I think saying you wouldn't be okay without
2024-07-31 06:32:18
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