if I find something out later then I'm 100% going to think there's something more going on because they kept it a secret
2024-07-17 13:06:54
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collarpopkiss :
Withholding information is lying by omission. Absolutely hate it. I won’t tolerate it in my life anymore
2024-07-17 15:16:44
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gunnybunny92 :
withholding information feels like manipulation to me
2024-07-22 12:34:37
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Harlz :
it's never to protect her feelings, it's always to protect yourself.
2024-07-17 15:43:16
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Ghsthuntergrl79 :
Withholding is lying to me.
2024-07-18 06:08:35
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Greta van flea :
If there is something you think will hurt the other person in anyway, maybe don’t do it.
2024-07-17 12:59:15
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Grandma Shelly :
Maybe she doesn't trust you because you hide stuff from her?
2024-07-17 15:24:49
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Hamster :
They’re so afraid of having hard conversations
2024-07-17 14:00:49
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Swk__ :
witholding information means I can't trust you because how many things you didn't tell me so far? What if one of that information was actually important? How could we maintain our life like that?
2024-07-17 18:31:14
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Taryn :
My husband lied about a very serious situation, then when I found out he withheld other little details that came out later. I lost all trust now I can’t trust him at all.
2024-07-17 14:16:11
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Jamie :
I feel like when you start making decisions for your partner without them knowing, you stop seeing them as individuals.
2024-07-17 14:52:28
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𝕤𝕙𝕚𝕞𝕞𝕪𝕡𝕠𝕝𝕜𝕒𝕣𝕠𝕠 :
Lying by omission is so manipulative because it takes away the ability to make a fully informed decision.
2024-07-21 19:46:57
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Linda Rockbelle :
We have a platinum rule. If you'd be ashamed of the other finding out about it, it's cheating or breaking trust.
It's not the info or action, it's the intent. Works for us very well.
2024-07-18 20:27:07
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poppenheimer 🍿 :
hm yes why would she distrust someone who lies, a mystery
2024-07-17 13:36:40
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Colleen in KC :
Women can tell when you’re withholding. We usually can sense a shift, which makes it even worse when we feel like someone’s being dishonest about their feelings.
2024-07-17 16:15:51
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aq🫧 :
if you know it’s gonna hurt her and she’s not gonna like it, then don’t do it, it’s that simple
2024-07-18 03:21:12
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Lauren🌿 :
men will frame this as a “you dont trust me” but will never conceptualize not telling his partner something as not trusting her.
2024-07-18 11:41:51
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Pathfinder :
When I say “I’d like to talk about an issue bothering me” it usually ends with me apologizing for something I’ve done in the past without resolution.
2024-07-17 13:03:35
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Alma Ross :
Withholding information is lying. Period. I’m going through divorce after 33 years of marriage because of this.
2024-07-26 00:02:10
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amyskinner769 :
By withholding information because of what you think your partner will do. You are in turn doing what you think your partner will do by making up situations in your head.
2024-07-17 23:04:21
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partyof8 🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈 :
My guy did this. completely destroyed all the trust I have for him. if he had told me what he was going to do ahead of time I would have been fine with it, but he snuck around behind my back.
2024-07-17 15:21:29
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MichelleA :
Part of love is feelings are valid -period- & one partner doesn’t decide for the other how to feel.
If you broke trust, don’t delay healing w/ more lies.
If s/he has trust issues, help them work thru!
2024-07-23 17:29:55
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posie :
people will always find out anyway. would you rather someone find out, or would you rather tell them? honesty is the way to go, imo
2024-07-17 20:17:40
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Meg Leigh :
Agreed
2024-07-17 19:38:26
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