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MissMilkshake :
Umm. It’s a conversation to have before a relationship is even considered
2024-07-17 18:10:38
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libra_fietje :
That's something to ask straight away, like first date conversation.
2024-07-21 07:10:39
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Lizzie Indah :
Either compromise, break up, someone changes theur mind, or stay together and be miserable
2024-07-20 19:05:24
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TwoTeabagspls :
Wasted most of my twenties on someone who said a lot of words very little action. Don't mess around with time you can never get back.
2024-07-21 07:53:09
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nevarfromraven :
Later down the line? That’s a first day matching on dating apps conversation for me!
2024-07-18 22:18:05
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Denise 🍉 :
I make it clear from the start I have no plans on having kids so not wasting anyone’s time
2024-07-17 20:04:33
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Ambra Osadiaye :
u should ask immediately tbh. but or u accept it or u leave, cause they might never change their minds and if they do, maybe u can try dating them later on in the future
2024-07-17 17:27:22
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Naomi Wallace :
Ended it with someone who kept changing their mind on what they wanted. Not wasting my life.
2024-07-20 12:09:34
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tazchowmein :
A) you need to discuss your deal breakers like kids, marriage etc. early on before committing B) leave to find someone else or decide you can live with their choice
2024-07-21 08:30:56
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lucy lou :
the quicker you wake tf up and leave the better because both parties are wasting time with one another. time is too short
2024-07-17 18:06:30
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Jordan :
It’s a convo that needs asking within a week of dating with a plan to executing that. These convos need to happen sooner than they are. It was one of the first things me and my girlfriend spoke about
2024-07-17 17:32:16
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hootoflaughter :
if you don't want the same things you aren't meant for eachother. so need to move on
2024-07-22 09:04:15
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no0815girl 🇨🇭🏳️🌈💖💛💙 :
I clarify that on the first date…
2024-07-21 13:18:53
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Alternative Potato :
Thease conversations are important to have as soon as possible, and if you don't have the same want you're incompatible. If someone changes their mind it makes you incompatible. Someone will become
2024-07-21 09:43:53
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kiki 🇬🇧🇸🇪🏳️🌈 :
if someone changes their mind I'd ask how important it is to them - for example I'm child free and always will be, if my partner decides they want kids it's on them to decide if they want them enough
2024-07-21 09:24:18
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kittykatpop :
this has happened to two people I know guy and girl. for the girl her bf waited hoping she would change her mind so she ended the relationship after 7 years. for the guy he just went along with it in
2024-07-21 07:34:30
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Laurel Lee :
Tbh I’d talk about it fairly early on. Unless this is like a relationship you got into as a kid or from a friends group kinda accidentally and it just happens it seem important
2024-07-20 10:02:45
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xcelticeyesx :
Those conversations should happen fairly early. If the goal is to date with intent, they will. If you both don't want the same things, the big ones like kids, marriage, future goals, exit stage left.
2024-07-19 14:52:42
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yup :
no u talk about those things in the first like 6months prob
2024-07-19 09:52:02
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Abzz_jpg :
Just leave
2024-07-17 19:29:39
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Geena 🇬🇧 :
Don’t expect someone to change their mind on those two things in particular. It’s a direct path to regret and resentment. If it’s a deal breaker for you the best option is to end the relationship and find someone whose goals and values align with your own, even if it’s painful at the time. Definitely a conversation to have early on when getting involved with someone and to be 100% honest in that discussion.
2024-07-17 18:19:12
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Niemand :
I left after 13 years. He said in the beginning I want marriage and kids but first we need to have things in order. Which was fair because we were both studying. When we had everything he changed his
2024-07-30 11:59:32
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Carly :
The person who doesn’t want the thing gives in to avoid the other person leaving them for someone who can provide the thing. Not fair, but common. Have the convos early.
2024-07-23 09:37:16
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Emma :
my 2 long term relationships didn't want marriage... I waited first time, second time I left. now I think I'm single forever 🤣
2024-07-23 08:40:09
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Insolitus :
if it's a important thing to you, that you can't see changing over time. be clear about it early on. and break off of you can't agree. is my take on it.
2024-07-23 07:42:23
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nomadjock :
if it doesn't tie in with your wants and needs for your life. do not stay and hope things will change. go find that person you have the same wants
2024-07-22 19:55:37
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J.R 🏴🇬🇧 :
you walk away. no future.
2024-07-22 18:47:25
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Nia Horton :
Don’t wait, you sit down and have a conversation and if it’s a deal breaker you leave
2024-07-22 09:53:04
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Deedee :
You talk about it and decide if you can live with it or not. Sometimes people compromise and live with the choice for the sake of their relationship, or they leave.
2024-07-22 07:32:55
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Aria :
My ex used to want kids when we were first together. Then he changed his mind. It's one of the main reasons we broke up. I couldn't stay with him and resent him
2024-07-22 05:32:43
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Lisa 🤸 :
should be discussed pretty early on, but yeah that's clearly not meant to be better leave 🤷♀️
2024-07-21 22:59:36
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Stitch_Witch🇳🇱🏳️🌈🇪🇺 :
I changed my mind on kids after being together for a long time, gave him my blessing to leave and/or find someone else on the side. he didn't, even though it's a pretty big deal to him.
2024-07-21 19:57:41
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rainydays2017 :
If that is something that’s important to you, try and have that conversation within the first month so neither of you waste each other’s time
2024-07-21 16:33:48
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Waerulv 🇪🇺 :
there's no "later down the line", you discuss that before getting into a relationship?
2024-07-21 15:48:35
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Birgitta Sif Jónsdót :
The expectation of having someone carrying and giving birth to children is huge. Definitely something to bring up early on in the relationship
2024-07-21 14:44:22
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Ox :
you should've the convo abt definition of cheating, pets, children, marriage, care taking of ill family members VERY early in the dating process. thats literally what dating is for.
2024-07-21 10:50:15
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Bored Octupus :
You make it clear from the start. If someone changes their mind in time it's not a deal breaker for me if both are willing to compromise
2024-07-21 10:45:28
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Cpt.Citron :
There's no point in waiting it out bc you're just wasting time at that point. Have a real talk with yourself what is more important to you and decide based on that to stay or leave.
2024-07-21 10:28:09
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Iba.peacock :
My ex did this. I was furious for him wasting my time.
2024-07-21 10:21:55
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Mandy Newman 🇬🇧 :
Determining if your goals, dreams, ambitions and energies align is what dating is for. I don’t commit to a relationship until that has been established. If later one/both change their position, end it
2024-07-21 09:37:09
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Dogsnrocks 🇬🇧 :
Have that conversation early before feelings get involved… but yes people do change their minds but dont bet on it if they dont want what you want and you dont want to sacrifice dont expect them too
2024-07-21 09:11:06
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Dan :
I'd break up. They deserve to be with someone who can give them the life they want if that's not me then that's not me unfortunately
2024-07-21 08:33:32
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ExterminatorRex :
please don't assume people who don't want kids will "change their mind". it enrages me when people say that to me. why I make it blatantly clear I do not want kids very early on
2024-07-21 08:30:10
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csmclaire :
I think those things are a non negotiable and you need to have those decisions earlier - I know someone who divorced not long after marriage as he believed she would change her mind on kids
2024-07-21 08:22:49
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Tash :
I don't want children, I'm firm on that. If later on the line they "change their mind", we have to break up, because we're not compatible. 😕 People who wait for you to change your mind are the worst.
2024-07-21 08:03:48
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jennlouisew :
If you’ve discussed it at the start and then someone changes their mind that person needs to be honest and say that. It’s cruel to have someone stay on false pretences
2024-07-21 07:52:48
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krakensmor :
the relationship is over - these are fundamental differences and resentment will build if you stay together.
2024-07-21 07:35:26
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Zotoroto :
We spoke about these things early on. We also spoke about how we wanted to raise our kids before having them and about lots of other stuff we wanted or not wanted in our lives.
2024-07-21 07:20:47
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