@kaylinbphotography: The aftermath 🥹 Mentally i was so checked out here. I barely wanted to hold her. No one talks about that part of post partum. Eventually things went to normal and i couldn’t get enough of her. She is our everything and has her daddy WRAPPED. She will be 3 in November. 💗#tiktok #traumaticbirth #trauma #tiktokviral #tik_tok #Love #tiktoktraditions
I totally understand. After 4 hours of pushing I was disassociating and don’t even remember holding him
2024-07-19 13:58:19
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Rachelle :
this happened with my second i had so much guilt after bc no one talks about not having immediate attachment after traumatic birth
2024-07-19 13:19:02
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Allie Frank :
My trauma birth baby will be 3 in November as well. ❤️
2024-09-17 00:12:05
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Ollie :
My daughter is 12. Her birth was the single most traumatic event of my life. When I think back on it, it’s like watching a movie in hyper speed. All
2024-10-13 08:03:12
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Zulie92 :
Your feelings are valid. I had an emergency c section due to pre-e I still felt pregnant my brain couldn’t understand I was holding her
2024-07-19 14:14:10
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Grace James :
I let my son’s father hold my baby first because I was SO checked out.. I thought it was a me thing- I appreciate you sharing moments that make me feel I’m not alone 🥺
2024-07-19 17:17:41
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jekmcmillan :
One of the realest videos I have seen! I thought I was the only one and was so embarrassed to admit it!
2024-07-21 01:42:48
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Megarella 🏳️🌈 :
It amazes me that you can often tell the good ones by simple gestures. My husband scratches my head like this when we’re both upset/overwhelmed, and
2024-09-02 06:11:27
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sammyreynolds496 :
I never heard anyone say what I felt after my 2nd was born and I felt guilty. I was tired, traumatized and shaking so bad from adrenaline. but mad why I didn't want to hold her I needed a few minutes
2024-09-15 13:20:26
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Carrie :
My youngest wasn't breathing and was blue when he was born. I remember very clearly everyone leaving me and rushing to him. I remember looking at my husband and both of knowing something was wrong.
2024-08-31 06:32:12
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katlyntenna :
My c section was v traumatic & I felt so sick immediately after they transferred me from OR bed to recovery bed, they tried giving me baby & I just kept saying no give her to my husband
2024-07-19 19:46:13
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🩷💓cadigirl_estacia💓🩷 :
dude yes. as soon as I went to recovery after my emergency c-section from being in labor for 3 days, I was like give me a minute cuz I thought I was gonna puke, and my husband was like "you don't want
2024-08-21 07:38:16
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Sallie :
Literally nothing to do with what the videos about, but I’m drinking Black Rifle Coffee as I watch this and he has a Black Rifle Coffee hat on. What are the odds?
2024-07-20 12:32:36
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Mackenzie Cheung :
1/2 my daughter is the same age as yours! My birth was traumatic as well, my daughters heartbeat dropped to 60 from distress and she didn’t cry coming out so me and my husband disassociated and
2024-07-25 23:23:40
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clf13 :
I was the same either way my first. 29 hours of labour, the pain was unreal thought I would die. Then he was distressed. Born with rotational forceps not breathing. I didn’t even want to look at
2024-07-20 23:31:32
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Hailey Holcomb :
I don’t remember holding mine after my c section… I didn’t get to in the OR bc he wasn’t breathing but once he was and they brought him to me I was so checked out and terrified. We sent him to the
2024-07-30 23:18:17
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Jackie :
I was the same way with my son. I handed him right to dad after 1 minute of holding him. It was just too overwhelming. After everyone left the room, and dad fell asleep, I held him, love him,and cried
2024-07-20 20:48:26
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Anna Hodson :
my first birth was very traumatic, I had an emergency c section and was put under. I woke up to them pushing on my stomach and I threw up and hemorrhaged. I was given benadryl for nausea
2024-07-19 17:56:03
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Sammi :
It took me months after having my second to even feel like she was mine. Weird feeling but I got the help I needed 🤍 there are
2024-07-22 21:56:53
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Carly | Mama 🌸 :
I fully feel not wanting to hold her after going through everything. I hemorrhaged for an hour afterwards and held her the whole time and once they sat me up I handed her to my husband and
2024-08-02 11:36:50
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Kathy Pierson Rail :
I had been given a 50/50 chance of carrying my 1st baby because of placenta previa. I was afraid to love for fear of losing her😢 it really is a shame
2024-07-20 05:33:48
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e-mae30 :
I didn’t even want to look at my daughter in these moments. I was so overwhelmed and exhausted. 💔
2024-10-16 16:16:22
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Bay : SAHM & lifestyle :
I severely hemorrhaged after my son and because of his heart defect and having the cord wrapped they took him it's such a weird feeling to not know what to do with your baby I was so terrified
2024-07-19 13:02:14
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user7893496043736 :
I pushed for four hours and needed a forceps delivery, fourth degree tear. Immediately rolled to OR to get stitched up. I hardly remember any of it and didn’t even want to hold my baby for a good 24hr
2024-07-21 12:04:18
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Cassidy.McPherson :
I was in labor for 16 hours with our 3rd and finally our baby girl. I was over the moon excited but after her birth and trauma when I looked at her it just reminded me of that. So I disassociated.
2024-07-19 15:21:51
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