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Marcie Ann846 :
I stayed and now my adult children treat me exactly like he did. They aren't healthy adults.
2024-07-20 02:33:57
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mand_claire :
The accuracy of this 😭😭😭
2024-07-20 16:22:14
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Humans R Garbage :
You saved your kids!!
2024-07-22 19:44:16
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Cheryl🦋 :
I had that experience. And people really acted out when I left. They didn’t care how abused I was.
2024-07-20 00:14:30
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flowlikeair :
I did. My son told me to leave so I did 🤷🏻♀️
2024-07-20 00:23:59
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MedussaHead 🇲🇽 :
Actually, you leaving that relationship is going to do wonders for your children, because they'll learn that that behaviour is unacceptable, and that they'll always be strong enough to leave relationships like that one
2024-07-20 00:29:29
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Stephanie Ritter :
My kids were my why. When I told them I was divorcing their dad they were supportive and happy they wouldn’t witness the tension and toxicity.
2024-07-20 03:24:48
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Amy :
ALL i thought about was my daughter before I left. And then I thought about the example I was setting for her. This was what she would think love was. And I couldn’t live with that. I left FOR HER. Because I didn’t want her to seek those kinds of relationships for herself because that’s how I demonstrated love
2024-07-20 04:27:25
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anenomenemesis :
I’ve learned that it says so much more about the person asking. Most likely, they are in their current relationship for their children, thinking leave=bad stay=good
2024-07-20 12:20:30
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britbrit1992 :
I had a dream my daughter got with someone like her dad and I told her to leave and she looked at me in my dream and said "why? You never did." that was when I left
2024-07-20 12:10:10
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Nicole :
I finally left because of my kid. I couldn’t bear the thought of how it would impact the rest of his life having such an unhealthy relationship modeled for him
2024-07-20 03:13:23
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Sabrina :
My kids are so much happier since I left. They never wanted to be at home before but now since he's gone they wany to be home all the time.
2024-07-20 01:14:33
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noogienugget :
My ex's family was horrified when they witnessed first hand what he was really like, but completely stunned and angry at ME when I filed for divorce.
2024-07-20 12:51:15
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TJ :
It's also negatively impacting the child to stay in that situation. The children are watching, listening, learning. My kid still displays behaviors he learned from his father.
2024-07-20 00:22:19
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Sharilee Sprowls :
Yes, and I knew I didn't want my daughter being raised around all of the fighting. I left because of her. She deserved better.
2024-07-20 01:41:25
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boopthecarrots 🇨🇦 :
My kids are happier that he's moving out. My 6 y.o isn't lashing out anymore.
2024-07-20 11:07:34
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erinlewis456 :
best thing i ever did was leave. now i have a husband who treats me the way I should be treated and my kids have an example of a healthy relationship
2024-08-01 23:54:13
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Emily :
This is exactly what I've faced since leaving my relationship and exactly WHY I left. My kids deserve better. Coincidentally, the person accusing me of not thinking of the kids, rarely sees them.
2024-07-20 01:35:15
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Sess :
To stay and have two unhealthy parents or to do the harder thing and leave so they will have at least one healthy parent…
2024-07-20 00:13:54
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Sess :
Told I’m abandoning my kids just because I left the house… told I was paying someone to be my friend when I went to therapy all infront of the kids…
2024-07-20 00:13:05
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DaniJalen :
Mine to this day still asks why I’m still married. He wishes I would have left hubs when he was a child.
2024-07-20 10:53:46
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Courtney Wells :
i remember as early as age 3 my father abusing my mother. left and raised me as a single mom. was difficult, but I'm so proud of her! 🥹
2024-07-21 01:40:46
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letsdothismommy :
my ex actually said this recently to me and made me question if I was doing the right thing my therapist looked at me and said you are doing the right thing
2024-07-20 12:23:26
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HermoineBlimey :
I left because of my baby.. she witnessed me being strangled while I was pregnant with the second. She almost fell off the bed at 6m and cried everytime she saw a man. Yes I thought of the kids
2024-07-20 00:23:48
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meghan :
HE said that.
2024-07-20 00:12:30
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King of Kapuze :
Even if all the toxic stuff would happen behind closed doors that the kids were never affected first hand, which is unlikely, they still need a happy and healthy mum. Put the oxygen mask on you first.
2024-07-20 19:10:42
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Rat B@stard :
My parents divorce was genuinely the best decision they ever made. Id be so much more fucked up if they had stayed together 💀
2024-07-20 00:25:15
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Christay From Wiscansin 🧀 :
@Ginny 💯💯💯💯
2024-08-03 21:01:34
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Sizablewskakrystyna :
@AUSCYBERSUPPORT Thanks for helping me out, I’m so grateful for your services.
2024-07-24 08:11:22
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Chelsa Bohlmann :
You do not have to explain yourself to other people. It is not their life. It’s none of their business. They don’t know what they’d do if that was their life
2024-07-23 17:45:45
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Shaydee :
Omg yes!! One healthy parent is better than two toxic parents… children are going to grow into adults and we are continuing the curse of abuse
2024-07-23 13:34:42
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Meg :
@Emerie
2024-07-23 02:15:10
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aka Mommie :
And tbh it hardly affects them. Like …honestly. Poverty affects kids. Not divorce.
2024-07-22 11:31:17
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Erin :
I left as much for child as myself. She needed to understand that being treated that way was not normal or acceptable. Show her she shouldn’t accept it by my example.
2024-07-21 19:45:46
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Faespirit77 :
Who is dealing with that post trauma. You are. You are handling now the repercussions, and they have a mom they trust to be honest with them. ❤️You made the right choice.
2024-07-21 11:30:35
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1anddonenow :
Definitely we don’t need to show our children how to stay in an abusive relationship or that it is ok to have an abuser. Good for you!
2024-07-20 20:16:55
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Sabrina :
When you described what he did, it struck me that my ex husband did these things all the time, groping while I’m getting dressed or barching into the bathroom while I’m on the toilet or in the shower, constant calling while I’m out shopping or going errands, no wonder I lost my sense of self.
2024-07-20 02:45:19
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Karrie Bennett :
💛💛💛
2024-07-20 01:46:12
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Shelia :
I stayed for the kids and for my disabled mother in law who lived with us because I didn't want to leave her with his awful behavior
2024-07-20 00:56:14
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jennifer :
I left when the abuse moved from me to my child. I don't care that my ex called me a fucking bitch all the time, but I definitely care that he called our child a fucking little bastard and other names
2024-07-20 00:52:18
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Traveler :
They’re not my kids. He told me that enough times.
2024-07-20 00:47:51
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Lil momma 50 :
That’s the exact moment! Showing my little girl that this is ok 👎
2024-07-20 00:21:10
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Amber_Alaska :
More like 10 years
2024-07-20 00:19:10
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Amanda :
My ex said that, but only because I was raising my stepdaughter. Now he has to be a dad to her. I feel terrible leaving her, but he only ever took advantage of me and didn’t meet my needs.
2024-07-20 00:16:27
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Opkin :
I had to change in the bathroom 😬😫
2024-10-13 00:52:38
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🖤💛❤️chookstar26 :
watching my 1 year hiding against the couch watching him scream in my face, threatening me... after he left and we were both crying and shaking and holding each other.. leaving was easier
2024-10-11 21:29:44
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Kiwi gir♉️🤍♒️ :
Also, he doesn’t seem that bad, you should try harder. I have cut so many so called friends off this past year
2024-10-05 07:32:17
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Shauna Banauna :
All. Of. This.
2024-10-01 10:38:06
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Raven :
I did… for 16 yrs. I was his puppet on strings. He always controlled me through money and kids. It cost me dearly by staying and leaving. I knew I would lose it all to save myself.
2024-08-21 22:11:05
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hehehanan optional :
Exactly! I stayed to long and I regret it everyday because my kids have major issues because of this relationship with their father! That was almost 8 years ago and they are finally healthy mentally
2024-08-19 22:35:25
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Cassie.is.here :
Exactly!!
2024-08-19 15:29:40
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