Simon Gilham
Region: IT
Sunday 21 July 2024 08:32:51 GMT
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Milea Cagle :
For me it stims from my autism and struggling to get a read on emotions. It’s not always trauma based.
2024-07-23 18:04:07
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donnagrossett :
Is that the only reason why could it not be from a previous toxic relationship
2024-07-21 21:47:57
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Heidi :
I’m 60, I’ve done this my whole life it seems, been married for 41 years and still ask this, so when will it lesson?
2024-07-24 09:59:16
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karenwilkerson66 :
Is that why I do that or I’m sorry for everything.
2024-07-22 05:13:21
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Ria :
True ❤️❤️❤️
2024-07-21 09:03:59
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CK :
You don’t realize how badly you were affected thinking you were fine till you are with a good person
2024-07-24 15:24:05
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clairebear :
new knowledge thankyou .
2024-07-21 11:13:30
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Chrissie De Beer :
So true
2024-07-21 12:48:59
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mermaidyelana :
Him constantly asking me if I'm okay makes me feel like I'm not okay. I'm fine until he asks multiple times, then it starts to make me feel unsettled like I was fine but now I'm not
2024-07-28 06:31:06
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Tony G2532 :
maybe, but i also no when my partner actually isn’t okay and that line will start the conversation
2024-07-30 12:33:50
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SilentTornado :
It can also be from a previously abusive relationship or marriage. I speak from experience.
2024-07-22 12:38:44
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Lucas :
I do this all the time to those I love. mostly my lady, and my children. I do this un consciously… I know that it stems from no one asking me when I was younger if I was ok. crazy how we carry things
2024-07-22 17:54:14
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690257Kelly :
love this
2024-07-21 13:21:10
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rxcat :
this is hard though when that monitoring feels almost smothering or like being emotionally micro managed 😢
2024-07-23 23:59:40
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. :
Or is it paranoia?
2024-07-25 12:05:37
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LoveGenix :
Exactly. She just want that you are perfectly good and it gave him the peace of mind.
2024-07-21 17:51:50
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Baxpark :
Both of us do it. I've learned his queues, but I'm an emotional rollercoaster, so he still does it. I feel so bad for perpetuating his need to do that; I feel like I'm the trauma. I'm working on it.
2024-07-24 01:58:46
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topshot_28 :
It never got better, she was so insecure that she thought I was gonna leave her but she left because she thought I was.
2024-07-21 16:40:14
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Paisleys_MomMom :
I use to ask my husband all the time and now I never ask. He helped me heal for sure. He has helped me over come so many things. ❤️
2024-07-25 08:51:20
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Amy The Happy Hypnotist :
Smile sometimes! 😀 You will like it!
2024-07-21 15:41:12
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Karolina :
That is so true! I used to be worse but now I’m healing and don’t do it as often.
2024-07-21 12:43:23
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Pisces Oceanside 🪸 :
now I'm crying
2024-07-22 10:14:50
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Maureen Ali :
Wow. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
2024-07-21 11:15:31
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C.B :
So True
2024-07-21 08:43:14
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Nique :
I’ll try to give reassurance. It definitely gets frustrating, but that makes sense.
2024-07-24 04:33:57
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