When I'M doing the talking, I need to search the space in the room to collect the thoughts that are floating all around. Don't YOU see them?
2024-07-24 00:34:23
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TealAquaRed :
If I maintain eye contact, I start disassociating for some reason and I can never remember the conversation. But if I let my eyes look around, it’s like I’m more involved in the moment.
2024-07-26 02:15:56
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Repunzel :
We don’t like being perceived
2024-07-24 01:10:43
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Julia Stephan901 :
Do ever talk to someone and they say “what are you looking at?”
2025-08-23 01:15:02
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atz 🕸️ :
i can never keep eye contact while talking it feels awkward
2025-01-24 00:42:38
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daisyfresh4 :
When people try to see if someone is lieing they see if they look away right? So when I look away to the right or left I am recalling a memory or something else.
2024-11-07 02:23:06
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floridatherapist :
For me, it’s because I don’t think they care about what I’m saying and I’m embarrassed
2025-07-01 14:56:55
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Katelyn Nicole :
Is it weird that I only want to make contact with like my mom, or my fiancé or my kids?? Anyone else I won’t stay in eye contact with 🥴 I only want my people if that makes sense
2024-07-24 00:50:54
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Thora Eiriksdottir :
Omg yes this is so me 🙈
2025-06-05 13:40:47
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Tsumi93 :
We need to say things before we forget and a lot of information download at once which leads to us not having eye contact but actually tapping into our heads a lot😂. With listening we only fixated if you get to the point and are interesting. If not then our eyes wonder off again 😭
2025-07-15 12:13:54
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Bismarx :
Anyone else feel like laughing when they make eye contact when talking to someone?
2025-05-28 04:38:02
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Melibay :
I need to look away because I get distracted by reading their face
2025-07-22 03:17:47
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rukhsshahin :
I'm watching the mouth, like I can lip read because I can't hear.(I have no hearing issues).
2024-09-06 20:17:25
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Tiffany :
I think it's because we visually we have to picture or recall what we say.
2024-07-24 00:27:25
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that's totally me 😂😂😂
2024-09-21 19:35:37
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Jennifer O'Neal :
It distracts our thoughts
2024-07-28 22:48:28
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Chloe Brookes :
No but like when your talking to someone and forget to make constsnt eye contact and they start looking behind them or above them because that’s where you end up looking half the time 🙈
2025-08-18 21:48:23
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Jani | :
Ok I do this. Does this mean I am neurodivergent ?
2024-07-26 12:07:28
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Mahalia Gorrie :
No, it’s because when somebody else is talking it’s a lot easier to focus your attention on maintaining eye contact whereas when you are speaking, all your energy is focused on speaking
2024-09-22 10:53:36
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Little mama❌ :
Nope. I search my mind with my eyes. If I’m searching for the right word, phrase, or even trying to recall a memory-my eyes wonder along.
2024-07-25 15:29:09
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jz2480.0 :
I have adhd and I have perfect eye contact, I don’t break it unless they do
2024-10-14 05:47:52
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✨🥀F🥀✨ :
omg I do that
2025-06-28 00:28:36
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theestherbassey :
Experienced it today. I almost blurted out "blink if you need help". 😂😂😂
2024-08-21 17:17:38
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