@expressyourselfblackman: After getting cheated on, I felt uneasy about dating. I knew I had something good going with my girl, but we weren't in a relationship. My past trauma told me to keep my options open because I feared things might not work out. After talking to my therapist, I realized keeping my options open could eventually create the environment for things not to work out. It was a hard pill to swallow, and I felt like I was working against my better interests, but I decided to commit to making things work with Naima instead of having my heart and mind in multiple places. Sometimes our trauma informs our decision-making, which can lead to more trauma (compounded trauma). Take the time to heal and ask yourself, “Why am I doing what I’m doing? Am I being driven by rational thoughts or negative learned behaviors from a past trauma that I haven’t properly addressed?” This is a great question to think on and journal about. 🔗 in bio for the full episode. #BlackTikTok #expressyourselfblackman #relationshipadvice #viraltiktok
Express Yourself Black Man
Region: US
Wednesday 24 July 2024 17:04:59 GMT
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mangoandcoconut1 :
i'll keep them open.
2024-07-24 21:36:31
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therealbellacarter :
THIS
2024-07-26 21:50:57
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Twincity :
Imma be single and get this moneyyyyyyy
2024-08-02 17:24:42
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Sturdywell :
💯. We are Always in a Relationship, just with ourselves. And sometimes, we add other ppl (Women).
2024-07-25 13:35:26
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Luthabandross :
See? This why i cheat first
2024-07-25 19:25:31
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NMN8800x1994 :
nah, keep them open
2024-08-02 00:44:33
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Papa Yaw :
Very deep‼️
2024-08-08 18:54:59
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tinaa.marieeee :
THIS !
2024-07-27 02:10:38
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Malik ❤️🔥 :
Damm that’s deep🔥🔥
2024-07-24 18:28:04
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Dekaris Bailey :
Deep! 💯
2024-07-24 17:29:56
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WAV. :
Real
2024-07-24 19:33:00
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Mance :
Nah this real.
2024-07-25 14:27:21
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Jo :
🔥🔥🔥
2024-07-26 14:45:54
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H I M :
😂😂😂
2025-09-09 04:57:51
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TheNykaAtakora :
💔💔💔💔💔
2024-07-26 18:10:40
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Allen :
@THE XFORCE CYBER SECURITY ⚙️🔐 you remain the best on this job, thank you for helping me out spy on my partner phone
2024-07-24 19:47:03
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Lilian willy :
@JAMES PETER the best spymaster agent I can recommend you guys to he helped me access someone messages and location in less than 10 minutes wow
2024-10-10 15:19:03
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Bentley Carson :
@𝗦𝗬𝗡𝗖𝗛𝗥𝗢𝗡𝗢𝗨𝗦 𝗖𝗘𝗛 Best spy.
2024-09-19 19:38:02
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AstoriaTheStudent✨ :
I love seeing men in therapy
2024-07-25 22:00:05
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