@livjowen: River is going through a phase where he is hitting/pinching when he gets upset, which is completely normal. But just because it’s normal, it doesn’t make it ok. When he hits, I immediately stop his actions and show him that we be ‘so soft’ instead. Sometimes that’s all the reminder he needs. Other times, he’s too upset to listen and continues to try to hit. Those are the times that a little time out is needed. Time for him to calm down enough that I can then explain to him how to be ‘so soft’. When he’s done hitting, and he’s ready to be nice, I encourage communication between us to help him feel understood and validated. I’ve found that consistently using this approach makes hitting during the terrible twos phase much more manageable. #gentleparenting #gentleparent #momlifeunfiltered #toddlertantrums #toddlertantrum #momlifeishard #momlifebelike #parentinglife #parentingishard #parentingwithintention #parentingwithpurpose #momlife #parentingadvice #momadvice #momsupportingmoms #parentingtips #toddlerlife #toddlermom #toddlermomlife #toddlerlearning #toddlerbehavior #momsoftoddlers

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anna_grace_643
Anna :) :
My mom pinched me back and I never did it again and I turned out just fine hahaha
2024-07-31 02:17:59
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cv..help
kara :
'stop that's bad and it hurts!' would also work idk
2024-07-24 18:33:00
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allbecause1903
Abc :
I seriously believe you should write a book about successful parenting when you get time 👌, you can be an inspiration and guide to so many parents
2024-07-24 18:32:36
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briellalindsay
Bree😗(xplrs version) :
I’m only a teenager but I’m trying to memorise these bc when I become a mother I want the healthiest parenting style possible, no smacking or belting, just communication if that makes sense
2024-07-25 09:50:58
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terrajane0
terrajane0 :
I would put him down if it’s safe to do so. That would hold a more firm boundary. Worked with my son
2024-07-25 23:02:12
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alynnmarr
Amanda Lynn :
This 100 percent works. It’s the best first step for emotional regulation and empathy imo.
2024-07-25 23:00:33
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is29172
Is :
Keep posting gentle parenting. We are learning. ❤️
2024-07-24 22:01:58
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jennifer_official2012
♡ Jennifer ♡ :
your such a good mom!!!
2024-07-24 18:30:52
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haleywilson710
Haley Wilson :
When I try to do that my son headbutts me 😁
2024-07-26 06:40:58
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lolojank
Lauren Jank :
If he kept going would you put him down? Or what are the next steps if he doesn’t calm down and keeps pinching?
2024-07-25 13:13:06
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jordumbpeterson
Jordumb Peterson :
is it just me or does he have a very full smile for his age??
2024-07-26 06:39:42
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nguyentruong20155
nguyentruong20155 :
How can I try your technique and it doesn’t work lol, you’re amazing
2024-07-25 12:00:29
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karilupuswarrior
karinasarai :
my 20 month old hits me too or tries to hurt himself when he doesn't get his way
2024-07-24 18:34:11
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nomah_leo
@noma55 :
that smile😭🤣❤️
2024-07-24 19:13:01
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mpevans0517
mpevans0517 :
Gosh this makes me feel better. I do the same things and always feel like I’m failing because it keeps happening. But I’m realizing she’s learning consistency and what to expect from me.
2024-07-27 00:28:26
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ladyhelena86
tat gol :
I LITERALLY NEEDED THIS. It’s been happening to me in the past weeks and didn’t know what to do.🥰🥰🥰
2024-07-24 21:06:54
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m_atanasoska
+389🇲🇰 :
CAN I GET A HII??❤️
2024-07-24 18:30:26
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gabberz8
gab :
you’re doing amazing things for new/future parents ❤️
2024-07-27 19:38:59
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revoltatnoon
revoltatnoon :
I've been wondering how River is doing at Disneyland. Lol
2024-07-25 20:02:04
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isabellacr006
Isabella :
He has such a cute smile 😭
2024-07-27 16:39:46
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user1164063749112
Ruru4 :
My kid slapped me once and that was the one and only time he ever did that.
2024-08-07 03:17:14
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tthisisbeetrying
bee ♡ :
the stopping them and waiting for the eye contact reminds me of me training my pup 💀
2024-07-28 20:19:13
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adaespinoza667
adaespinoza667 :
You are the best advise for any Mother in the world
2024-07-25 12:00:37
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rtothetder
Rosa T de R :
Love this but it doesn’t work on my 2 yr old. She gets mad when I try to stop her from hitting
2024-07-26 06:24:06
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berardoventura
Blazing Mewtwo :
Being gentle and kind is the way to go
2024-07-28 03:24:29
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