@matthiasjbarker: Just think about it: Trying to forcing a conversation when one of you is overwhelmed or angry is like trying to put out a fire with gasoline—it only escalates the situation. This is why it's important to give yourselves a breather, to allow your nervous systems to settle and regain composure. And once the emotional intensity has subsided, you can revisit the discussion with clearer heads. Remember, this isn't about giving up on the conversation; it's about giving each other the space to cool down. Because when you're both ready to engage calmly and intentionally, you’re much more likely to reach an understanding and find a solution that satisfies both of you. #conflict #conflictmanagement #fight #arguments #relationshipadvice #relationshiptips
Ok but shaking the soda stressed me out and then I got it 🤣
2024-07-26 17:35:13
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Dan :
I've been following your advice and it's been healing our marriage! Thankyou! We used to fight till someone storms off, now when my partners emotions are triggered and sends her into fight or flight
2024-07-30 16:27:20
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JB :
what if it takes them weeks to calm down and I'm waiting more than a month for a sense of resolve? :(
2024-07-29 16:56:58
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Petal :
But may learn a side of them you need to know about 😳
2024-07-29 21:00:30
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OVIPOUR✨ :
shaking the can was a hook, I like the idea. ❤️
2024-07-27 00:03:37
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Mae VanVeldhuizen :
I had to walk away from my MIL this week and she tried to chase me down and I told her I needed physical and emotional space. She practically chased me and it didn't end well
2024-07-26 17:29:36
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user7849450136689 :
Some people never come back for the conversation so…
2024-07-28 13:24:26
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Whistle41 :
He leaves and then the issue gets buried because he NEVER wants to address tbe topic again after things calm down. He pretends it’s all ok when things calm down
2024-07-27 11:19:41
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allyxoface :
🤍thanks for sharing your wisdom🤍
2024-07-26 16:34:04
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Stephanie Lynn 🦋 :
Absolutely hate getting chased when I know I’ll explode and say stuff I don’t mean. I need time to cool down before I can have an ok conversation for sure.
2024-07-26 18:09:20
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OffBrandIsland :
"we can't talk about this now because I'm too upset"
"come on. Don't bring that up now. Everything is calm now. Why ruin the mood?"
2024-07-26 19:42:58
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n :
Do you brave the storm or wait until the waves calm?
2024-07-26 19:05:12
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Carmenlinda🔅Lamy :
Love your clips ❤️
2024-07-26 16:37:01
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Enedelia Espinosa175 :
why do we always have to talk when the other feels like it, we are always compromising
2024-07-28 19:03:43
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Amal A Fouz :
Did anyone notice how calming clothes,hair and background is.. to allow us to focus on his words.😁
2024-07-29 18:46:41
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blindedcook :
however what if their is one that is unable to have a conversation, always explosive
2024-07-27 16:41:11
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Anndrea Alley Burche :
Yes, but what if they use that as a way to get out of the conversation and never allows the topic to be discussed?
2024-07-29 11:56:16
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user3265431360684 :
My bf only actually talks when he’s is exploding in anger. Then when he’s calm he doesn’t want to talk about it.
2024-07-29 19:57:55
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DaVinci2739 :
Still if you walk away, aim to do it respectfully. Tell your partner you need some time, and then its easier to respect
2024-07-29 03:36:04
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Queenobly :
insanely early
2024-07-26 16:32:18
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Joseph :
This is absolutely truth!!!
2024-07-28 07:31:37
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_FaZe_Eclipse_ :
Could you make a distinguishment between Obsession and Love?
2024-07-28 00:39:08
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Tik Toker :
Took me 43 years to learn this
2024-07-27 21:18:48
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user3933520165840 :
is that spindrift?!!
2024-07-26 18:43:35
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