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terifuksova
Tereza :
What to do when 3yo hits and kicks during the tantrum? I always say her, that i need to keep myself safe and I go further from her, but it upset her even more 🤯
2024-09-30 10:25:19
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kinhousecollective
Kinhouse Collective | Kylee :
What happens if your toddler starts hitting you in the process of you needing to get them in the car?
2024-07-30 14:22:05
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eleanorhope2319
✨Eleanor Hope🏴‍☠️✨ :
This was really good to read. Thank you for this.
2024-07-27 19:53:42
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erika.kendra
…..😎 :
This is amazing! Thank you!
2024-08-06 03:07:16
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caliroseygal
caliroseygal :
Such a good summary! This is exactly what a lot of parenting courses teach. Holding the boundary while connecting and offering empathy is so important for kids to feel safe.
2024-08-08 23:52:25
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hebrandon1
hebrandon :
me with no current kids reading all of these
2024-07-31 18:39:35
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theadhdgirlie
theadhdgirlie :
Thank you for breaking this down! Love it
2024-08-09 11:57:42
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amandaanikole
Amanda :
finally someone who says something about the kids who don't want a hug. that's always the suggestion and my son SCREAMS if we offer a hug or suggest deep breaths. it leaves us kinda lost on how to comfort
2024-07-28 02:41:57
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thedoctorsdangle07
Whoa :
Thank you for the helpful insight 🤝 youre doing good work!
2024-08-02 16:01:36
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ellie.oh
Ellie :
Thanks for info on how to subscribe!! Always appreciate your guidance 🥰
2024-07-30 16:48:15
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chaoticenergyonlyy
Daddy :
I’m trying. My husband gets frustrated and gives in and it’s been making the cycle that much worse
2024-07-28 04:08:49
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kaitasaurusrex13
KaitasaurusRex :
I’m really struggling with my reaction to my toddler’s big feelings. This was super helpful. Thank you.
2024-07-28 18:57:29
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sairuh.tonin
✨Sairuh Tonin✨ :
I love how you spelled it out and made the cheat sheet script at the end
2024-07-27 20:50:02
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ohmydaysmick
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Thank you for using inclusive examples - I’m a disabled mother and the “pick them up” isn’t an option for me, so it’s really good to see this acknowledged!
2024-09-02 11:50:46
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jdm_lol
Anthony :
Thank you for this ❤️
2024-07-30 10:57:10
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melon1991
TastyMelon :
Is there any issue with asking them to cry out quieter? :S often my 4yo cries/exclaims biiig feelings but they are so loud. I say it's ok to cry and feel your feelings, you let it out. Deeeep breath.
2024-09-03 19:58:26
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beckybecki
Becky :
I have been struggling so much with what holding a boundary looks like for some reason. this is a big big help to me. thank you
2024-07-28 23:17:15
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bepe2019
Sarah :
I LOVE your advice! How do you handle newly-potty trained toddlers? i.e., we have to get in the car, I know he hasn’t peed for 2 hours and we have an hour drive so he needs to go, but he refuses.
2024-07-28 02:59:04
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lesbianplantparent
Ashley MW :
I don’t specifically practice RIE, but there is almost to a fault what I do with my current toddler (and in the past). A simple and clears heads up close to any transition, getting on their level
2024-09-30 23:56:31
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megbriede
Meg Briede :
What would you suggest if your child throws the legos everywhere during the tantrum? I have OCD and really feel the need to pack them up before leaving
2024-08-11 11:45:59
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sydneehargrave
Syd 🌸✨ :
I LOVE THIS♥️♥️
2024-09-30 05:00:45
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kedunn05
karah :
The only bit that I personally would adjust is saying “I’m sorry” because I want my son to know that he never needs to apologize for setting a boundary
2024-09-09 14:43:59
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pippagled
Pippa :
this is great! I have a 14 month old & struggling to discipline him not to hit, throw things or bite. he doesn't seem to understand no and finds it funny if I raise my voice or look stern. any advice?
2024-08-12 11:22:49
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erinsk
KittenDragon :
I have a 6-month old who, when he is upset without a clear reason, immediately gets quiet when certain music is played. is that just distracting him, though? is there an age when we should stop this?
2024-09-02 02:37:25
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poppy_jf
Nicky :
😍😍😍
2024-09-29 19:04:13
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