@theholisticpsychologist: Learn more about dismissive avoidants in my book “HOW TO DO THE WORK” #childhoodtrauma #attachmentstyle #healingtiktok

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lilith19776
Lilith1977 :
One word : Exhausting 😩
2024-07-29 00:59:04
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iamdanitachelsea
Danita Chelsea :
I’m convinced dismissive avoidant simply means the person just doesn’t like you.
2024-09-04 19:51:36
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soul.l0st
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silent repost
2024-10-11 20:52:37
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raeshell02
Rae_LeAnn :
How do I fix this! I wanna be in a healthy relationship and learn to handle emotions but I don’t know how to break the cycle. I don’t realize I do it until the damage is done.
2024-10-04 18:28:22
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taelortargaryen
Taelor Targaryen :
“🤨…anyway” is so real LMAO they think we’re speaking a different language
2024-07-28 21:13:38
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karynwashere
Karyn Jenius :
This is a fine line with covert narcissism
2024-07-29 05:03:34
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ken_cu17
Kenni 🤍 :
Put this on his fyp not mine.
2024-07-30 20:58:44
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espadairl
Nathan :
They are emotionally still childlike. I can’t do that.
2024-09-03 10:47:11
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bichiswichis
bichis :
Kirk is this you? (My ex)
2024-11-09 01:03:26
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mistletovia
Mistletovia :
I’m so sad their childhood hurts them so deeply. Nobody deserves that. But you could legit write a playbook of the timing and ways they’re going to pass that trauma on by hurting and abandoning you.
2024-07-29 00:53:58
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bellacitaaaa_
Bella :
I’m so glad I got help. I hated being an avoidant.
2024-07-29 05:15:20
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winter_incel
winter incel :
Unfortunately when I was younger this happened to me(Im the avoidant) and bc of this I hurt people that were very precious to me, so I decided to distance myself and not get into any relationships+
2024-10-23 16:13:29
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kattfish.h
Katt 🤍 :
the “…anyways” sent me a feeling of rage i haven’t felt in a long time
2024-07-29 07:43:00
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sz99cg
Susan Z :
This is TOTALLY ACCURATE! This happened to me. He was great in the beginning and then like a flip of a switch he became someone I HATED. This was a hellish nightmare Thank Goodness I'm away from him!
2024-07-28 23:30:07
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smh.922
🧚‍♀️ :
Last time I shared my feelings with an avoidant, he stated that it was, and I quote, “wack.”
2024-07-29 04:15:44
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kalesb8
Kale 💚 :
So real. As soon as I brought up my boundaries and not feeling equal effort, he left and blamed me. My communication was too much for him.
2024-07-29 03:01:49
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joanniethejedi_
Joannie :
And then they love bombed me when they’re done with their episode 😅
2024-07-29 12:39:43
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mfmfltd
Donna Maria Bradley MFMFLtd :
Avoidant attachment style is very challenging if a person does not work on themselves they will project the hurt they have internalised.
2024-07-30 22:25:33
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colleenlikethethornbirds
Colleen :
This was literally a play by play 😭
2024-07-28 21:27:19
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crowdotorg
crowley 🦇 :
My girlfriend used to be like this, but we’ve worked through a lot together and she’s become a lot more comfortable with communication both ways 🥹🫶
2024-10-04 19:05:43
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jamieklenz
JamieK :
Would someone drag this out for 7 years?
2024-07-28 21:22:52
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iloveprince69
iloveprince69 :
Sometimes it’s not seeing arguments, it’s parents not being emotionally available!
2024-07-31 14:58:58
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beakeh.b
Gigi the Don😁 :
This feels so similar to what a narcissistic does; how can we tell the difference?
2024-07-28 19:31:42
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joshynumba1
Josh :
Is it possible for someone to overcome this trait? it seems extremely challenging to even attempt a relationship with a DA
2024-07-29 12:19:58
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annieshouldbewriting
Annie ✨ :
i am fr traumatized by this, if you know you feel this way don’t date until you work on yourself pls 😭 ik you can’t help the attachment style you develop but you ARE responsible for healing them
2024-07-31 14:55:20
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