@watchfulcoyote: Unhealthy relationships might be unplesant and hard, but on another layer they’re very easy. Healthier relationships might be much more validating and easier, but on another layer they’re the hardest thing you’ll ever do. #dating #marriage #Relationship #men #mental #MentalHealth #patriarchy #feminism #heal #healthecycle #datingadvice #hard #grind #advice #hot #cheap #easy #think #book #foryoupage #fyp #viral #bellhooks #healing #work #culture #masculinity
Yes, the healthiest relationship I was in challenged me the most
2024-07-31 21:41:29
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none :
This factory reset my brain. I feel like I’m aware of this at 22 and it’s hard for me to date my peers who haven’t even graced this topic let alone their own self actualization.
2024-07-31 22:17:57
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Lasha Jakeli :
the main reason why most people can't even stand healthy relationship for a second is because..
kindness deactivates protectors such as anger and exposes wounded inner children, which is very painful
2024-07-31 08:35:11
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cb :
This is Ted-talk worthy, thank you for sharing
2024-07-31 03:58:00
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Ppp :
is healing even real?
2024-07-29 02:01:43
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jw :
this is a masterclass and every married person should watch it 😳
2024-07-29 01:50:40
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punk_pig :
I feel this. Asking my partner to be more conscious of everyone’s feeling seems like asking him to become unhealthily hyper vigilant and people pleasing but we wouldn’t have community/family without
2024-07-29 06:30:12
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E-TAY 😈 :
Damn 17 minutes? 😭
2024-08-16 06:10:36
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samaa :
This is the most insightful, expansive and detailed video I’ve ever watched
2024-07-29 11:26:52
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hcat :
i have to literally rewire my brain! especially after being in such toxic relationships in the past. it’s so hard like actually realizing my partner isn’t out to get me or belittle me at any moment
2024-08-01 00:47:20
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a13 m :
scarcity in love is somehow seen as being more valuable in the relationship
2024-07-29 01:19:59
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Ritz :
That’s so interesting, I’d like to add that in my experience what leads to a healthy relationship is a strong foundation. Similar values, morals, but more importantly similar intelligence. If one…
2024-08-13 16:44:55
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oko :
Finally found a girl that cherished all the same soft-hearted values l did. She left me because she didn’t feel a spark ☹️
2024-08-01 00:37:43
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Ella :
This is good
2024-07-30 00:16:44
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Doni 🍷 :
I've had enough of the unhealthy... I want the healthy now, no stranger to pain so it won't matter if it hurts or not. Gotta put that resilience to good use
2024-07-31 23:10:36
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fungoidwizard1990 :
The realization that true closeness means you can’t hide or ignore your wounds anymore is really painful but the growth you can experience from it as a person shows how love motivates us to be better
2024-08-13 00:09:43
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Moon Hox 🍉 :
I wish I could share this video to my ex, this are the word I was unable to have when I needed to express my feelings. thanks for the content
2024-07-29 03:26:38
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Simon :
all of this sounds awesome but to my autistic brain feels like pinning air to the wall and completely impossible to implement.
2024-07-29 14:04:07
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Mr.StolenValor :
this! ppl get mad at me cause i like being uncomfortable and causing others around me to be uncomfortable by commenting on the bs i and they do. not because i like it but because i take accountability
2024-07-31 19:33:29
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dominicmccabe :
people want healthy relationships.
2024-07-30 16:03:38
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just me :
I say to hubby. if I didn't care and love you, I'd never mention it.😌
2024-08-01 02:25:50
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sophialsouran :
who said the quote about love being the willingness to extend yourself for someone else? I can't find it ATM
2024-08-04 04:41:27
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Tomsss :
This is so real, I’m showing this to my therapist.
2024-08-01 03:24:02
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Sam :
I appreciate your perspective 💜
2024-07-31 23:14:36
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