Shawna Lander
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Thursday 01 August 2024 22:21:14 GMT
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mariah jane :
as a millennial without kids, let me tell you, it’s actually them who ignore us. i babysit. i call. i send their kids birthday cards. i give gifts. i celebrate mama! yet when i need a friend, no one
2024-08-02 00:01:47
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Cadabrecat :
Not all friends are for all stages of life
2024-08-01 23:13:02
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Danielle Ellsworth :
I get both though. It’s exhausting to hear a friend drone on and on about their baby and nothing else matters anymore. Not even you 😢
2024-08-01 23:31:19
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MLCJeep :
I get both sides. I backed off a friend cuz it was all “you don’t understand cuz you’re not a parent” and life is meaningless until you are a parent”.
2024-08-02 00:41:42
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Sunny :
The second I got pregnant my friends stopped inviting me to things or coming over. I got the “oh I was going to invite you but I assumed you wouldn’t want to come because you’re pregnant”.
2024-08-01 22:35:00
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user1989 :
I get both sides tbh, both positions are exhausting
2024-08-02 12:00:34
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StephanieM :
As a childless person, it gets difficult after a friend has a child. Often it seems they lose their identity and every conversation is about their child or being a mom. I can’t relate so it’s hard.
2024-08-15 09:08:12
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🪷 Anya 🪷 :
Out of sheer emotional survival, I had to stay away from babies and moms. I was in fertility treatments for 8 years. It was really hard.
2024-08-01 23:05:52
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MARS🖤 :
Lost my BEST FRIEND of 13 years cause I had a kid😭 might get a call every 2 years
2024-08-01 23:06:16
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Sam :
this happened to me when I was only 3 months pregnant and going through it. The friend told me she couldn't handle losing another friend due to having a child so she ended our friendship.
2024-08-01 22:34:02
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Rebs Nels :
I can only take so many kids birthday parties, the bunch more money spent on the kids, the events invites for so long when I don't get a birthday gift, dinner missed, or adult events missed.
2024-08-02 00:29:22
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Marzipan Pig :
I'm the unmarried childless middle-aged woman, so I've been the one to lose friends when they got married or pregnant. I didn't know this also happened the other way!
2024-08-01 23:06:23
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Vyskara :
then there's us who try everything to support and love and be there for our mom friends. but we get pushed away because "we just don't understand" or "you'll never understand" so I stopped trying to.
2024-08-02 00:37:54
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Whitney Ulrich :
My two best friends have been consumed by motherhood they don’t respond to me anymore. If I am not the one reaching out they stop don’t contact me.
2024-08-02 06:23:11
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zmart :
Told my best friend of 12 years I was pregnant last September. She knew we were trying for a baby and wanted to be an auntie and all this but after we told her she became distant and then just stopped
2024-08-02 16:16:47
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Vanessssa :
I’ve been the childless friend and the one pregnant. Friendships go both ways. It’s selfish to think my friends need to stick around if I (pregnant) and making them feel like they don’t “understand “.
2024-08-02 03:17:15
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BrokeButMyDogsAreHappy🇺🇦🪆 :
It’s this way with chronic illness too.
2024-08-02 03:44:17
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Sammy | PCOS + Postpartum 🌸🦩 :
Friends for a reason, friends for a season, and friends for life.
2024-08-01 23:57:19
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ChaosBunny :
My ex best friend that helped us name our first born walked out my house when he was 3 months old and I never heard from her again. That was 9 years ago. Still run into her around town too
2024-08-12 20:29:25
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Apollo McBadass :
This is why I have no friends but fellow committed childfree people. I am just not compatible with parents, and that’s not their fault. So i don’t make friends with either parents or want-to-bes.
2024-08-01 23:16:41
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Dượng Việt Dung :
Candy, not?) @Emma
2024-08-01 22:23:10
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Alicia Hern :
This happend to me but she point blank said I don't want to hangout with your kid with you. Eventhough I was now going to be a stay at home mom so I was always with my kiddo.
2024-08-01 23:00:32
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DemonChild :
I get it. I get ignored and not included since I'm not a mom and get told no when I make plans, but when I don't invite them or visit them, I'm the bad guy.
2024-09-02 03:12:16
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