@her_mind_speaks: Cut this off as early as possible…. #fyp #emotionallyunavailaible #breadcrumbs #avoidantattachment #anxiousattachment #wiseinnerparent #mixedsignals #nervoussystemregulation #chasinglove #situationships #emotionalneglect #obsessivethoughts #inconsistency #pushpull
It blew my mind when I got into my first healthy relationship & his absence didn’t cause me anxiety because he made me feel secure overall vs other relationships where a text/call determined my mood.
2024-08-02 16:10:58
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Michelle Janko :
who is the youtube breathe work person?
2024-08-05 00:20:12
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Private87 :
I absolutely love this! It’s a true. I just randomly blocked yay!
2025-07-26 05:01:43
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Sooz :
Just getting over being in a situationship with an avoidant … it’s exhausting
2024-08-02 18:54:25
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January :
Red fleag!
2024-08-02 22:05:18
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LilaStar :
Also if they really cared about you if they truly are “busy” they’ll let you know ahead of time so you don’t need to sit & worry.
2024-08-03 15:26:23
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NurseB_30 :
Girl let him play himself right on out your life. Peep it and don’t say anything more than once. What one won’t do another will😌
2024-08-02 17:13:47
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g.o.o.d.i.e :
I just blocked someone for intentionally not responding in a timely manner. 4 days and he’s like you don’t give me a chance to reply…… 4 days. I blocked
2024-08-04 00:36:45
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Alex :
It’s also your gut screaming NO! I feel,had awful gut feelings a few months in, felt really off but I also felt attached& anxious, was soul destroying
2024-08-02 21:26:42
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Mandy 🧿💙🦋 :
I’ve healed too much so now I don’t even get happy when they text me cause I already know they’re bredcrumbing me so I just cut them off once it’s become a pattern 🙃
2024-08-04 17:36:31
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Mia Fontana :
The last guy I talked to used his family issues as an excuse to the point of abusing it. I finally faced reality and realized he was taking advantage of me. He started talking to me again recently-
2024-09-21 05:01:40
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OliveGoCraaay :
Damn “activating your attachment style” is so real.
2024-09-03 13:35:51
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@sophy banks :
Tag me on the breath work can’t seem to find it
2024-09-13 11:18:38
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Jess :
Wow I wish I knew this sooner 💔
2024-08-02 15:36:17
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bevy78 :
how about left on delivered for days? I assume they're not interested, being ghosted, accept the hurt, and move on!
2024-08-02 15:57:02
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Casey :
How much healing- inner work needs to be done before attempting to date or meet other people? Ie when with I know I’m ready and it’s safe enough to attempt dating again?
2024-08-02 13:24:29
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Essenceofbeautii84 :
I'm so happy I've seen this.
2024-08-02 22:29:11
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everybodyhatespaigee :
So glad I’m finally past these type of interactions bc i certainly been there and it doesn’t feel good
2024-08-02 21:25:35
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Dani (end rich worship) :
It’s INSANE how TikTok has made me feel like I’m not completely crazy. I’ve lived in pain way too long. 💔💔💔
2024-08-07 20:08:32
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⭐️ :
Its not about man, its about ur self. If u grow up spine, confidence, self esteem, grounding ur self...its never about "toxic" person.. 💞
2024-08-02 14:52:42
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Elieth :
Even when the person responds in the normal time or warns that he will be busy, I get emotionally addicted very quickly
2024-08-03 05:31:27
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user9065397534951 :
What if I’m feeling this but he doesn’t leave me on read for long - he responds pretty quick but I still feel this way - when I call, he answers or calls me back right away
2024-08-02 12:07:06
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