What to do if seek internal validation and I’m hyper critical of myself?
2024-08-06 02:08:00
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Kinibella :
What if the criticism isn’t coming from in your head, but instead from other people, and afterwards makes you feel unvalidated, even though you felt internal validation before telling them.
2024-08-02 21:31:15
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tonyfischer :
But we all need a certain amount of external validation; we are social animals.
2024-08-02 22:59:17
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Tuna :
Do nothing = you’re lazy, do something = not enough, do more = you over did it.
2024-08-03 23:53:06
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Alison ☾ :
What if you have food in your fridge but you just want more ??
2025-07-31 20:09:57
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Scott :
That was worth listening to twice!
2024-08-02 19:02:34
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Heather :
But isn’t it nice just to eat a meal with someone you love? Potluck?
2024-08-02 22:42:49
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Andrew Adkins :
why does the negative internal talk provide more motivation than a positive or peaceful talk as it makes me more passive that things will work out while the negative talk keeps pushing me forward?
2024-08-02 17:19:42
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Jensys11 :
But we are humans so we need both correct? Internal and external
2024-08-02 21:18:26
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garliccrumb :
I don't think I have a foundation of internal validation and external validation is so much kinder than my own thoughts.
2024-08-03 17:08:17
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mr nobody :
Sad because those who need the validation from others use their false personsa to get it
2024-08-02 20:14:12
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Daniel Marchant :
What would be a positive function of external validation? Because we grow up learning from others and copying, that makes us quite dependant on external validation to learn, yet at some point we are supposed to cut it?
2024-08-02 22:47:56
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baby_bichote :
This message is so powerful. Thank you
2024-08-02 18:17:13
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joelporter1972 :
this is me! my "love language " is words of affirmation, so I really do this extremely
2024-08-02 19:33:44
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Dale Hill :
I can relate.
2024-08-03 04:22:31
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Heather Lynn Nicole :
I definitely can hear my thoughts. I wish I knew why I am constantly searching for validation in every aspect of my life
2024-09-25 22:48:11
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mahaalfazary :
It’s being disconnected from Allah’s light tbh, I have tried everything and reading Quran and praying has changed me for real
2024-08-07 01:16:36
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Betch :
Aware
2024-08-02 19:37:26
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stanmardeusz :
I agree 💕
2024-08-04 01:32:31
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JaGengArt :
I love your videos
2024-10-28 12:44:00
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OnlyStreets_ :
I started not to care what others think what I am doing after I read and learned a lot
2024-08-03 17:41:51
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user5872576159631 :
Thank you for sharing
2024-08-02 20:32:14
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Rebecca Ann :
Good analogy
2024-08-02 20:06:22
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MayoSavant2024 :
Should a neurodivergent, understand this?
2024-08-02 17:21:36
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Ughhhh i need more coffee :
Can hear my own negative talk in my head
2024-08-02 20:16:15
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