@lungihonest: Healing from situationships has become one of the hardest journeys for me. It feels like these connections cut deeper than any defined relationship ever did. Being with someone who refuses to give us a title leaves me in a constant state of uncertainty, and it has really taken a toll on my anxious attachment style. I’ve learned through therapy that I need consistent validation, clear communication, and reassurance to feel secure. Yet, when I’m stuck in this gray area, my mind races, my heart aches, and I question my worth. It’s a battle between wanting to feel loved and needing to protect my heart. I’m sharing this because I know I’m not alone. So many of us struggle in silence, thinking we’re the only ones feeling this way. But we’re not. Let’s open up about our experiences, support each other, and remind ourselves that our feelings are valid. 💔 If you’ve ever been in a similar situation, I’d love to hear your story. How do you cope with the uncertainty of situationships? Let’s turn this pain into a conversation and help each other heal. Drop a comment below or share this with someone who might need to hear it. #LungiHonest #HealingJourney #AnxiousAttachment #SituationshipStruggles #EmotionalWellbeing”**
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Monday 05 August 2024 09:56:53 GMT
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sana :
😩what hurts me the most is that I know I am not the girl he will ever choose.The situationship is the one he can offer me.I want him so bad I'm willing to settle for this bare minimum til I leave him
2024-08-06 05:47:23
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kagisojantjies :
I’ve never related to a video the way I do to this 😭😭 FELT!! I recently learnt that I have an anxious attachment style and really need that consistency when it comes to relationships🤞🏾
2024-08-06 10:58:12
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Chumiee :
I finally left him…almost went crazy yet I couldn’t say what I loved about him.
2024-08-06 19:44:18
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_LethinjabuloShivambu :
What hurts the most is that I never dated them but find it hard to move on. X 😭
2024-08-05 19:31:40
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Palisa M :
The hardest thing has to be them making contact when you try to break free and you giving in because you "love" them yet you know they don't love you but they love having you around for their benefit.
2024-08-07 08:46:55
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SIBU POTYE 🫧 :
Release yourself from holding on to a “ what could have been “ situation if they wanted to they would . They never wanted to commit to you and that’s okay , there’s nothing wrong with you . ❤️
2024-08-05 22:34:17
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Didi Masita | self-love coach :
❤️❤️❤️I have an anxious attachment style support group. You're not alone 🫂
2024-08-05 19:56:27
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Didi Odungide :
Girllll.....
I'm currently in one 😭😭😭😭
I'm typing this amidst tears. I had to term it "best friend -ship" cos I couldn't leave him. I'm so in love with him that everyday I wish he could say a word
2024-08-11 16:53:23
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Rumer Jade :
The hardest part is trying to explain it to everyone around you, cause you do all these relationship things but it’s not a relationship. The hardest part is saying it’s okay, when you know it’s not.
2024-08-06 15:21:32
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gaia :
it took me 2 years to get over a 6 months situationship. I wanted him to want me. I didn't understand why he didn't want me and felt like I the only way I could be "enough" was through his approval
2024-08-07 00:51:42
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🦋Akiiki🦋 :
situationships are so traumatizing
2024-09-03 16:12:28
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Lee Matlapeng :
We took 2 months to stop sending each other reels... after I found out he was still hung over and talking to his high school sweet heart who wasn't in the country😭 It hurt but It gets better
2024-09-08 20:15:40
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Fyabupe :
and the fact that you can't just express yourself to them and the silent thing that claims that you guys are in love is killing me😭I wish to leave him always make me be on my knees💔
2024-08-07 09:41:34
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Tshego 🇵🇸 :
It's my second year healing from a 4 month situationship which left me in so much debt because he'd tell me that he'd take me seriously if I only take myself seriously. Joined gym, weaves and.....
2024-08-05 20:37:31
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faith : ) :
Me who has been in a situationship for over a year now🥲.When I tried to explain to him how I felt he always said I make everything about myself and I am desperate for a relationship.
2024-08-07 11:46:43
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Kelebogile ❤️ :
Definitely feel less alone after seeing this 🥺
2024-08-05 19:25:17
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Betty Kubai :
Currently going through this, i try to pray it away but the dreams that comes after the prayer are oposite of what i am asking from God
2024-08-16 20:35:20
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social recluse :
It’s been over a year & I haven’t fully gotten over him. I chose to channel that energy to leveling up after ‘it ended’. Got my masters, apartment, license, a job & I still feel empty without him.
2024-08-07 18:20:16
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Ta Qapza🤟🏽 :
I used to think I enjoyed situationships bc of the freedom that came with no titles (seeing other people) but I was actually filling the void of not being chosen by adding morpeople into my life.
2024-08-07 10:04:16
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Kefilwetsentle :
Omg I can relate!!!! I was in a situationship with a narcissist that made me feel like we’re in a relationship when we’re actually not in one. When I finally left I found out I’m pregnant😩
2024-08-06 17:13:03
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𝓁𝒾𝓈𝒶🫧 :
I think what hurts more about situationships is the hope, and constantly thinking of what could’ve been but with relationships you can fully said we tried and try to move on without what ifs that hit
2024-08-05 21:56:55
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Makobo Rakgwahla|Fashion Model :
No cause I’m crying 😭
2024-08-05 20:15:10
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TsakisaMashaba :
I couldn’t have said it better myself 🥹
2024-08-06 16:29:32
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Brown☾𖤓୧⍤⃝💐‧˚‧˚✩ ˚🎧⊹♡ :
The way I needed this to show up on my fyp😭♥️
2024-08-06 13:16:34
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Steffi Chalira :
So relatable, word for word - I learnt a lot tho. My anxious attachment is linked to my childhood and I had to HEAL or be dragged. It’s triggering but you’re learning about yourself, lean in babe ❤️
2024-08-05 20:43:52
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