@coach.ryan0: Your love only pushes the avoidant ex away further. Go into no contact instead. Do it for yourself as well as the avoidant. #avoidant #avoidantattachment #dismissiveavoidant #fearfulavoidantattachment #insecureattachment #attachmentstyle #emotionallyunavailaible #breakup #discard #discarded #divorce #heartbroken #Relationship #dating #nocontact #nocontactrule #situationship #relationshipcoach
This literally makes me so sad for him. He deserves so much love, he has the most genuine & gentle heart 🥺🖤
2024-08-07 16:09:42
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Yes but don’t they need consistency? To make them feel safe?
2024-08-07 13:57:45
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Nathalie Lapointe :
🌹🌹🌹thank you sir😇
2024-10-13 21:18:28
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samm :
he did love me even he said himself.. in the end was to much for him 💔
2024-08-07 14:36:36
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Mary :
So, I did everything right, but with and to the wrong person. Dammit. 😞
2024-08-07 13:52:30
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LondonMomma🐾💖 :
Never break no contact! Write the letters but keep it to yourself 💔
2024-08-07 13:42:47
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D :
Only God can help the avoidant. I'd pray for them but keep my distance, just for my own sanity.
2024-08-08 01:46:29
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keani :
This is the hardest part. I’ve already done it to degrees and have a letter I spent weeks working on knowing I can’t give it
2024-10-14 04:31:37
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bubibubi54 :
I won‘t anymore it’s really hard but i am proud of myself
2024-09-11 11:18:53
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krisg2023 :
Literally everything I did 😭
2024-08-07 13:38:45
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Kaila⚡️ :
So what if they reach out? Ignore them?
2024-08-07 22:16:42
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Delkatherine :
It almost killed me it’s been six months I finally started seeing someone new I’m happy now
2024-08-07 23:15:09
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Lowcarb.Keto.Kim :
Both of us FA - he leans Dis, I lean Anx. I’m becoming secure. After 3 mos NC, he came back, said he missed me. Saw each other twice. Now he’s distant again. I didn’t chase either. I’m gonna end it.😭
2024-08-07 13:17:39
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Jen :
do avoidants block you randomly? I asked a question about his intentions & he blocked without communicating.
2024-08-07 17:11:04
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JAylene E. :
But in that space he is just going to get with other girls and think “oh this is so great” and not think of me at all. Trying to avoid that..
2024-08-07 22:04:24
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Affan :
Define no contact please
2024-08-07 20:40:42
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Tim :
Ryan you are soothing and eyes opening person, thank you for your insights
2024-08-07 15:37:19
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Gaenschen89 :
N they want someone nice n loving. But stick with the toxic ones
2024-08-08 00:32:49
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annidonia :
My ex may have regrets, but his ego will never allow him to admit it. 12 yrs married and he would now rather be alone. Doesn’t care that I’m devastated.
2024-08-08 01:48:49
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Patri :
Why didn’t I see this video earlier? 😭 Now I understand everything about him and his actions…we have been in no contact for 2 weeks after he said that he doesn’t want to talk to me anymore
2024-09-14 09:39:19
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crypticpony :
I was so full of love and adoration for her in our relationship. MY BAD. 2 months nc. I’m starting to feel better.
2024-08-07 13:53:47
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user5458361617842 :
He pushed me away for the last time. 30 years no more. I wish him well and hope he heals and allows love in from the next person.
2024-08-07 18:48:39
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LA :
Bro… almost broke down and did it! The thing that saved me was understanding her past actions.
2024-08-07 13:37:17
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April Pam :
But how can they get married??
2024-08-07 17:53:01
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