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i am so difficult my mother has cut me out of her life currently. 😔
2024-08-08 17:06:49
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pnwwren :
Yep. My sister was the people pleaser so she was the favorite
2024-08-08 18:20:42
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Cait 💕 :
Yikes this is scary accurate
2024-08-09 20:17:29
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Jennifer N :
Lord this is too accurate 😂
2024-08-08 17:05:07
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sasha :
Experienced this. I called my parents out and how their behavior wasn’t normal. My sister is still the favorite and that’s fine. We have ok relationship but my mom still tries to force us to compete.
2024-08-09 15:26:39
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Liz Eggleston Vintage :
This, with an added element of her being completely in awe of anyone male, giving them automatic respect I could never hope for. I'm held to completely different standards at all times.
2024-08-08 18:03:14
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Lisa K :
The seeking constant validation is my mom! I guess I was “tolerant” when I was younger but also am only child. She does this to my children now. My oldest is tolerant but my youngest calls her out.
2024-08-08 17:42:17
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Elvira Dobis :
My mom expected me to take care of her, and never wanted me to have my own life. Yet my brother, who ran away from home countless times, was the favorite child. Make it make sense.
2024-09-01 16:48:45
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J9elizabeth :
Thankyou so much..... I have been wondering why for so long....
2024-08-08 20:07:51
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LaDolceMama :
My mother, too! Thank goodness she listens to me, now, but she still destroyed my relationship with my brother, who may never heal or come around, no matter how much I reach out in love.
2024-08-12 11:34:57
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Leah :
I wanted to send this to my mom but I knew the mom's words "my toxic behaviors" would be her only focus. If instead it said something like "chaotic household" I think it would remove some of defensive
2024-09-08 17:41:32
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bluejay0181 :
After I opened my eyes to how my mother is, I mostly cut contact.
2024-08-09 16:43:36
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Indu Lekha 🕉♌️ :
my mother
2024-08-08 18:05:03
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✨Cheeky Gnome Crochet ☎️ 🧶✨ :
Going through this now. Mom recently died and since she triangulated us we are not on good terms. It really sucks.
2024-08-10 23:05:17
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Crescendo Windwood :
My entire family.
2024-08-26 13:48:45
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Kitherial :
Weow
2024-09-01 00:42:55
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أروى📚📖 :
This
2024-09-08 23:28:47
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c 🌺 :
exactly
2024-08-08 19:30:16
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Alexandra Chrysanthi Kafka :
Such a great video 🥰
2024-08-10 13:44:47
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Chyenne Coderre :
Dadgum this makes alot of sense of my mother now. Wow thanks
2024-11-09 08:09:56
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🌀🐋MorganThaGorgan🌊🌀 :
oh, it's me and my mom
2024-08-21 21:38:30
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Sean D :
This is very accurate. My mom did this and constantly denies this.
2024-09-12 10:22:17
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Hayley :
I love your jumper where from?? The rainbow one?
2024-08-11 04:22:03
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k5 :
thank you for understanding me so much
2024-10-15 10:05:58
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