@claireauden: You have to kill the fantasy of your relationship with the narcissist. #healingfromnarc #narctokadvice #narcissistsurvivor #narctok #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticrelationship #narcissisticrelationshiprecovery #narcissism #npd #narcissistbehavior #covertnarcissist
The cognitive dissonance has me stuck because he can be nice. So I live for those. The lack of emotional intimacy and the intermittent dismissiveness, gaslighting and stonewalling is what I tolerate.
2024-08-11 23:25:53
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munchkin042 :
I stuck 35 years with one; don’t waste your life, get out now.
2024-08-10 08:26:38
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kyandi80 :
💯 Most direct explanation I’ve heard
2024-08-10 01:01:16
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🌻 :
100% the fantasy I had due to their future faking and the good person they were at the beginning is what kept me in the relationship despite how painful and abusive it was
2024-08-10 06:29:59
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mermaiden99 :
Processing 11 yrs. I feel poisoned.
2024-08-10 03:57:49
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amy_routley :
‘An emotionally regulating punching bag’. Yup - 21 years of being that was more than enough. Thank you for saying this.
2024-08-10 05:26:27
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Hehehe :
I really needed to hear this today. Thank you so much. I’m 5 months out of a 12 years relationship with one. ❤️
2024-08-10 02:17:13
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𝔏𝔲𝔵🥀 :
Thank you ❤️needed to hear this
2024-08-10 01:00:24
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Marcos Rivera :
“Ground yourself in the reality of this person”. THAT is the million dollar answer
2024-08-10 04:27:46
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Joseph H. D'Angelo :
How do 2 different narcs have the exact same protocol? So weird to me they all function the same ways.
2024-08-10 07:16:22
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Ess :
Fantasy died when he abandoned my children
2024-08-10 03:39:46
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Trinity :
I was 16 when we started dating. 37 and 2 kids when discarded. I never knew evil like that was fore real😔 I will never be the same again!
2024-08-10 01:30:58
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vtw11 :
spent 5 years trying to work out if they were Mad or just Bad ??
2024-08-10 01:46:05
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Let’s talk about :
Having a real problem with that and especially leaving for good. I was able to get out, after over 7 times.
2024-08-10 00:48:46
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Dianna :
I need to hear this over and over! Just the other day, my empathy was taking over and I was “feeling bad” for him!
2024-08-10 03:44:06
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Honor&Integrity :
You speak with authority. Thank you.
2024-08-10 01:23:48
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Kim Shifflett :
Your videos are what’s getting me thru my situation right now. I feel like I have such a better understanding of all these dynamics and realize it isn’t me.
2024-08-10 02:10:14
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Experience taught me :
💯💯💯💯done Thank GOD!
2024-08-10 01:16:21
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Jaime Cortes :
True. I was just an object for him to walk over. He gained an everything he has because of men, and discarded me at the first chance he got. Shame 💔 it wasn’t true love
2024-08-10 04:39:10
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Writer of Worlds :
I needed this reality check
2024-08-11 08:03:49
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Redbeard.007 :
I love and miss her, she calls me daily and yes I do go to her house but my energy is not the same. I try to break up, I even moved out. But she put guilt trips. She see how depressed I am and tells
2024-09-11 21:07:50
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Tim Cook :
"You can't survive on breadcrumbs when you need a 4-course meal" if there was a definition of truth bombs, it would be any of Claire's videos.
2024-08-10 08:06:15
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Sharron 👑 :
A good person could never do the bad things that they do
2024-08-10 08:07:41
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JC LTexas :
Unfortunately, the only way out is learning how to love ourselves and leaving them. Realizing that you have wasted so many years is not easy, but it is never too late to be yourself. YOU MATTER!!!
2024-08-12 06:40:46
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alana :
Struggling so hard after leaving him.
2024-08-10 01:50:51
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