Sputnik (and Maddi)
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scrappy doo :
ooo i’m a trans guy i will add something interesting. on dating apps w (QUEER btw) men i got MUCH more attention earlier on in my transition than i do now. i used to welcome it but not anymore bc it’s
2024-08-13 03:30:45
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Infinamz :
🥺 babe 😔 you deserve so much better
2024-08-12 21:03:08
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sharksharkgoose :
you explained this perfectly
2024-08-12 21:29:41
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Petra Robinson :
I deal with that. I thought I was making it up in my head because it happens so fast.
2024-08-13 19:47:23
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LennaLeFay 🍋 :
Spot on, you said it so clearly too, thank you for sharing even though it’s tough stuff. 💛
2024-08-12 21:23:07
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fleet.kept.running :
You could legit make a feature film length video essay on this. There is sooooo much to unpack here
2024-08-13 06:51:34
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yourconsciousness :
This has happened to me as a trans guy too
2024-08-14 03:34:15
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Bevin :
It’s similar to my experience as ftm, mostly because they would think I’m a trans woman despite my profile stating ftm
2024-08-14 16:58:24
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Total Betty :
I was going to say they'd "finished" because exactly this has happened to me too so many times. Also meeting a guy out in a club getting on really well but at some point pivot into threats of violence
2024-08-13 19:39:50
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TotalGrump :
you're so amazingly well spoken and put into words all these feelings I couldn't express. I'm a cis lesbian and support and love my trans sisters❤️
2024-09-05 00:39:54
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llavish [89/70] !! :
You are so so well spoken and smart! You articulated this perfectly
2024-10-06 09:37:11
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Cistyfella 🍉 :
Very intelligent analysis, deep and insightful. Thanks for clarifying some things I knew but hadn’t been able to fully rationalize.
2024-08-13 08:18:40
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Missy Bell 🇺🇲 🆘 :
this is so awful. I'm so so sorry.
2024-08-14 20:49:02
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Nova :
I have no shame in liking trans women. that makes me sick to know guys do that at all to beautiful women like you. I'm sorry people are so insecure about themselves
2024-10-02 22:06:26
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IHaveADreamsicle 🍉 :
You know they’re saying all those things to themselves but it’s not fair to be catching strays like that
2024-08-12 23:33:19
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jesse catman :
I agree with everything except trans men don't get ignored, we get targeted in different ways (it's a whole other conversation, just needed to point it out)
2024-08-13 07:06:43
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Nadia Reads Books :
you put this so incredibly well
2024-08-12 20:06:53
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Ƭҽȵ𐅿ⲁςɚᵀᴴᴱƇȴσωդ :
The hardest I ever cried in my life 😥😭 and this same thing has happened to me over, and over, and over again. 🏳️⚧️🫶🏻 I love your skunk 🦨
2024-08-14 16:41:33
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✨Logan✨ :
it's fascinating (read: horrifying) how "trans panic" murders are framed as trans women "tricking" men yet SO many of these instances happen after men KNOWINGLY go home/sleep with a trans woman
2024-08-12 20:23:18
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DastardlyMasterCylinder :
1) You nailed it. 2) OMG, skonk! 😍
2024-08-13 01:23:46
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Lori Badger ✨ :
This is a universal experience???
2024-08-13 11:52:38
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Oliver 🎧🦈🐾 :
It sucks how trans people are constantly seen as just sexual objects that they become aggressive too once we break their fantasy
2024-08-12 20:59:13
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Riley :
I am weeping 😭
2024-08-12 20:06:15
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Chyrsophade :
i also think its suppressed sexual fluidity, i always thought i was strictly straight until i found out it wasnt exactly that way, i was just into very femminine people.
2024-08-13 01:53:33
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potatosquib :
Your son is adorbs!
2024-08-12 17:43:37
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Aeryn🍉 :
The transphobia comes out real fast when they get turned down
2024-08-12 17:35:58
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remy 💜💚 :
you explained this better than I've seen it said from literally anyone else
2024-08-14 14:11:32
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jennajunejuly :
yup. exactly this.
2024-08-12 21:36:38
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catmoochie :
it's really crazy that people think trans people in this particular instance me are inherently sexual beings because I'm asexual, I am the least sexual being that there is
2024-08-12 17:46:57
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finallykrista :
Okay talk about a twist ending! (Amazing points too)
2024-08-13 04:10:38
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Kylie :
very well said
2024-08-12 18:49:02
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G :
I believe the issue stems from the rampant use of 🌽 at an early age, warping perceptions of how women are seen sexually as part of young male development.
2024-08-12 20:33:23
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Emerz60 :
Thank you for sharing your story! You all deserve better ::hugs::
2024-08-13 02:52:07
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Annika :
YOU HAVE A SKUNK??!? 😍
2024-08-13 00:46:09
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Nate Matthews :
YOU HAVE A PET SKUNK??
2024-08-14 12:42:25
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Leon :
amazing dissection and completely spot on 🙏🏽 also backing you up as a trans man bc i’m definitely feeling that dichotomy on a daily basis 😔
2024-08-13 19:35:28
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Serpentine_Autumn :
The hate being rooted from misogyny makes so much sense thinking more about; thank you so much for bringing this up. Also, I have gazed upon your son and wept, he is beautiful
2024-08-12 18:44:42
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cruz :
you explained it so well, thank you!
2024-08-13 07:06:15
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Watermelon Writers :
This was really eye opening (and absolutely horrible!) sorry you’ve been through this and thanks for sharing!!
2024-08-13 19:09:57
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planet clue :
great video. love your skunk
2024-08-13 14:51:20
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Fairy Tzarina :
As a swer I get a variation of this as well. When they aren't saying "Oh of course your enby" while calling me a woman.
2024-08-15 01:18:11
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$1000 crab :
I’ve always had the thought since I was a kid “men want to punish you for their attraction to you”. That seems magnified for trans women ☹️💔
2024-08-13 05:30:20
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Hanna Ella :
This makes so much sense. That’s so scary. I’m so sorry.
2024-08-13 06:13:37
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hm :
so weird how masculine women are accused of being trans women and not trans men, which I feel like is the much “closer” category? butch people are often born female and take on the masculine, he/him
2024-08-12 21:10:04
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Cam🔻 :
That’s horrific 😬😬
2024-08-12 17:44:53
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Paige :
I’m so sorry. You deserve so much better than that. 💕
2024-08-13 03:09:57
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misskrissywest :
That was an amazing explanation, as a tall strong built cis woman I have seen this when I was still on the dating scene, and had a hard time understanding their thoughts Said that, your dress is fire!
2024-08-15 21:02:23
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FelisSilvestris Craft :
It makes so much sense. ❤️the skunk too. super cute 😊
2024-08-13 12:10:28
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TrixieButtons :
i gaze! i weep! I love him and you!!! 💖
2024-08-13 12:08:21
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Cyndy 💋 :
Straight cisgender men need to unpack the misogyny and homophobia. They're a danger. You like what you like. Zero judgement.
2024-08-12 20:07:28
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Atom :
as a trans man, ur wrong abt the trans man part, bc of being trans too, we are heavily sexualized. There's men who fetishsize the idea of getting us pregnant and forcing us to detrans into tradwives.
2024-08-14 03:19:59
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Smiles :
“The object of their desires that threatened who they are as a man” resonated so much with me as a queer trans man and my relationships with cis men
2024-08-13 00:31:58
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maya <4 :
this is so articulate n well explained
2024-08-14 13:46:08
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NikitaVanShark :
Im a cis woman and have a thyroid problem that makes it looks like i have a Adams apple. had similar experiences as the first creator you stitched. men are "weird"
2024-08-13 12:17:05
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