@theconsideratemomma: How to raise emotionally mature children ⬇️ Here’s something not a lot of parents know: The ability to control impulses and manage emotional reactions doesn’t even BEGIN to develop in a chid’s brain until 5-6 years old and it’s isn’t fully developed until the mid to late TWENTIES! Traditionally, parents have used the first 5-6 years (or less) to “break a child’s will” and have taught that to “control” emotions is to suppress, ignore, overlook or quickly move past them. Ironically, this is the real cause of many problems we see in schools, businesses and the world today. So many grown adults do not know how to feel emotions without ignoring/suppressing, passing blame, resorting to aggression/violence, usurping control, manipulating others or becoming submissive in order to “keep the peace.” ✨Changing the WORLD starts with CHANGING OUR HOMES!✨ You can begin teaching emotional maturity to your children with my Calm Down Kits printables that equip your children to: 1. Understand and clearly communicate emotions 2. Prevent highly-impulsive and easily-reactive behaviors 3. Choose healthier ways of expressing emotions 4. Understand what they need (not just what they want) 5. Regulate their Nervous System 🎉🎉 The Kids Kit AND the Preteen & Up Kit are both 70% OFF through 8/15/24 (🔗 on my page) #parentsoftiktok #parenting #respectfulparenting #gentleparenting #consciousparenting #calmparenting
The Considerate Momma
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Monday 12 August 2024 23:32:13 GMT
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D | Sahm x3 🌻🦋 :
I tried that and my toddler looked at my laughed and slapped me 🤣
2024-08-13 14:53:44
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JustNez :
😞 I can do better
2024-08-13 00:55:34
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Kristen Mustard :
May I just say that this is hella difficult. I am guilty of this
2024-09-27 14:55:01
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Nekita Torres :
I’ve done both. 🥺 Hardest part of parenting is learning to manage your own emotions and understand your triggers.. we are just trying to do our best
2024-08-14 03:05:20
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annamcdowell63 :
This isn’t for parents of autism or children who have rage problems 😭
2024-08-13 15:28:05
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Chelsey🫧 :
Ughhhh I need to do better. I hate being the only one. It’s so overwhelming and it’s not even their fault :( I pray to be more patient 🙏🏼
2024-08-13 17:38:33
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Lucero ✨🦋 :
Gentle parenting is for gentle kids. My kid is gentle when needed lol she is a tough one so "why you crying" is what I am saying 😂
2024-08-14 11:40:51
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Marissa Quinn Jordan :
Do you have posters?!
2024-08-13 03:36:59
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Oscar Gomez :
In a Mexican household this don’t work 😂
2024-08-22 03:28:39
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Carissa Joyce 🫶🏻 :
I do a little of both
2024-08-13 17:44:29
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briannna2100 :
For this example, after regulating the emotions and finding a healthy outlet, what’s next and how do we handle it? Like apologizing? Or if it happens again even after we’ve shown them how to express
2024-08-19 17:44:53
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SarahMarie0817 :
Where can I get that poster?!
2024-08-13 21:49:34
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Chelsea :
Ain’t no way
2024-08-14 03:20:28
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sunnydays808 :
i tried that didn’t work.
2024-08-14 06:37:37
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Ms.Pinup :
look i already tried that gental parenting with my 2 youngest and guess what, I DIDN'T WORK. Back to being a strict lunatic 😒
2024-08-13 15:15:56
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user4004557746835 :
can't find where to buy the charts 😞
2024-08-13 12:02:00
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🛸Sev Mars👽 :
I watch these videos to learn correct ways to parent before I start having kids, but they also heal my inner child. 🥺
2024-08-13 01:03:46
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Chauntaé :
As a mom, I believe you have both. You gotta be nice, but you gotta be firm. You have find that balance.
2024-08-14 01:33:59
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Gen Uribe :
My kids wouldn’t even hear me talking like this 😂😂😂😂
2024-08-13 18:15:57
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Jocelyn :
I have a genuine question. If I transition to this form of parenting, what happens when they go to school and are exposed to a not so nice environment? Will they end up struggling?
2024-08-13 20:55:45
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crystalaye :
Every child is different my experience with my son so far this method does not work I definitely learned I need to be more Stern then soft or he will walk all over me .. let’s not call it yelling
2024-08-13 18:29:56
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a.bal0 :
gentle parenting doesn’t work lol my kids are savage
2024-08-20 22:21:38
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B_Kruger1230 :
What if your children are older (10-14) and you are now like this? My kids won’t use charts they will look at me crazy. But I’m so tired of being so angry
2024-08-13 20:03:42
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Mari💋 :
Girl gentle parenting doesn’t work for me I have bam bam and pebbles 😂😂
2024-08-13 16:35:06
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Aubree Blaquiere :
See i started with the charts and trying all of that and it’s not working so now we are going to authoritarian 😭 i don’t want to but it doesn’t seem to work with him
2024-08-13 23:25:08
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