@natashavctoria: A peak inside the mind of a triggered fearful avoidant #fyp #foryou #attachmentstyle #attachmenttheory #avoidant #therapy #dating #therapytok #anxiousattachment #anxiousattachmentstyle #fearfulavoidantattachment #growth #healing #pain
you are leaps ahead of others by acknowledging this trait. good for you
2024-08-13 17:48:26
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Phoenix Journey :
Thank you for being so authentic. I dated a fearful avoidant for two years….id never experienced that before. We’ve been in no contact for three months…what you have explained in this video helps
2024-08-12 23:55:20
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Deborah Lopez :
I wanna send this to him but I don’t wanna make him mad 😭
2024-09-04 23:50:49
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thatlili102 :
I ask myself Is this person doing something to me ? or am I just experiencing my own issue? is it a me vs me thing? I also visual a SWAT team showing up to protect me like a prison.
2024-08-13 04:24:44
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heather Shanley-Rish :
Appreciate this. I’ve been w a fearful avoidant for close to 2 yrs. Matched w my anxious attachment, it’s been a hell of a ride.
2024-08-13 11:32:23
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3.c :
You mentioned it is a voice in your head telling you to pull away. What does it feel like to you? Also how did you learn and now know that’s your avoidance and not just your true self?
2024-08-13 19:27:31
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Alisha Mae :
Just learned I am a healed fearful avoidant because I am soooooo self aware now but I do still feel it just don’t always act on it
2024-08-13 03:11:13
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seb :
I am going to show her this. Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts and story. This helps me so much as her partner and I hope it will help her too. I won’t stop trying
2024-10-21 09:43:31
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Peach Soda :
You’ve hit the nail on the head with this! I stonewall and put on a mean front to hurt people that have “hurt” me when it was never malicious to begin with. ):
2024-09-08 05:52:39
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Alyssa :
I’m at the aware point but not quite at the respond instead of react part, not fun 😅😭
2024-08-13 21:32:54
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Real Talk Therapist :
As a therapist, I find your frame and self understanding so inspiring. Thank you for sharing yourself to help others heal too 🤍
2024-08-16 02:37:33
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ang.sandoval :
You make me feel safe 🥺
2024-08-14 09:41:41
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Amber 🏳️🌈 :
As an anxious person this is so hard bc we have an insane need to fix things knowing we messed up
2024-08-18 22:40:38
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Christina Floreno :
Starting therapy and actively choosing to have uncomfortable conversations with people has helped a lot. I’m not healed at all lol but I’m healing. And I’m trying to be different.
2024-08-13 20:46:17
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Jess :
These are the words I can never articulate properly when I’m triggered 🙌🏼 best description I’ve heard yet!!
2024-08-13 15:59:57
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S :
This was the best description ever thanks
2024-08-13 19:00:09
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Lidia :
I once hurt him and he in turn was vicious to me. He was so mean to me.
2024-08-13 01:18:47
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Conchita Bonita :
Been on and off with my ex for 4 years. At the first couple of years he wouldn’t express hurtful statements, he would go silent. Towards our last breakup, he was way more expressive and so mean! We’ve
2024-08-13 00:04:43
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Abby :
What do you do to calm yourself when you are triggered. I see all of this in myself.
2024-08-12 23:49:07
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Ryan Luke :
19 month relationship, I can’t tell you how many times she’s ran for no reason at all. At least 6, have taken her back every time. I can’t do it anymore. Any advice? 💔💔
2024-08-13 00:23:06
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𝘒𝘪𝘢𝘳𝘢🍒 :
Felt like you was talking about me
2024-08-12 23:46:49
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katrena turner :
as a fellow FA I empathize
2024-08-13 16:55:00
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johanson732 :
This is insanely toxic and explaining it doesn’t justify it. I’m sorry, not sorry.. this is wild
2024-08-13 16:11:00
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jujuondatbeat :
i’ve broken/ended my past two relationships bc of unhealed trauma and my avoidant tendencies…
2025-01-28 05:14:54
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