@natashavctoria: A peak inside the mind of a triggered fearful avoidant #fyp #foryou #attachmentstyle #attachmenttheory #avoidant #therapy #dating #therapytok #anxiousattachment #anxiousattachmentstyle #fearfulavoidantattachment #growth #healing #pain

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_bisma.fida
bis :
fearful avoidance 🤝 bpd
2024-08-30 05:03:03
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vwarteon.wv
Joey G :
you are leaps ahead of others by acknowledging this trait. good for you
2024-08-13 17:48:26
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phoenixjourney2024
Phoenix Journey :
Thank you for being so authentic. I dated a fearful avoidant for two years….id never experienced that before. We’ve been in no contact for three months…what you have explained in this video helps
2024-08-12 23:55:20
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kryptonianmelody
Deborah Lopez :
I wanna send this to him but I don’t wanna make him mad 😭
2024-09-04 23:50:49
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thatlili102
thatlili102 :
I ask myself Is this person doing something to me ? or am I just experiencing my own issue? is it a me vs me thing? I also visual a SWAT team showing up to protect me like a prison.
2024-08-13 04:24:44
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heatherbeths
heather Shanley-Rish :
Appreciate this. I’ve been w a fearful avoidant for close to 2 yrs. Matched w my anxious attachment, it’s been a hell of a ride.
2024-08-13 11:32:23
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3.c.r.i
3.c :
You mentioned it is a voice in your head telling you to pull away. What does it feel like to you? Also how did you learn and now know that’s your avoidance and not just your true self?
2024-08-13 19:27:31
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alisha_maeee
Alisha Mae :
Just learned I am a healed fearful avoidant because I am soooooo self aware now but I do still feel it just don’t always act on it
2024-08-13 03:11:13
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mendoza.seb
seb :
I am going to show her this. Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts and story. This helps me so much as her partner and I hope it will help her too. I won’t stop trying
2024-10-21 09:43:31
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peachie.soda
Peach Soda :
You’ve hit the nail on the head with this! I stonewall and put on a mean front to hurt people that have “hurt” me when it was never malicious to begin with. ):
2024-09-08 05:52:39
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hoagieee123
Alyssa :
I’m at the aware point but not quite at the respond instead of react part, not fun 😅😭
2024-08-13 21:32:54
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realtalkktherapy
Real Talk Therapist :
As a therapist, I find your frame and self understanding so inspiring. Thank you for sharing yourself to help others heal too 🤍
2024-08-16 02:37:33
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ang.sandoval
ang.sandoval :
You make me feel safe 🥺
2024-08-14 09:41:41
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amb.nix
Amber 🏳️‍🌈 :
As an anxious person this is so hard bc we have an insane need to fix things knowing we messed up
2024-08-18 22:40:38
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christinafloreno
Christina Floreno :
Starting therapy and actively choosing to have uncomfortable conversations with people has helped a lot. I’m not healed at all lol but I’m healing. And I’m trying to be different.
2024-08-13 20:46:17
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sacredhandsdoula
Jess :
These are the words I can never articulate properly when I’m triggered 🙌🏼 best description I’ve heard yet!!
2024-08-13 15:59:57
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nayelisahaira
S :
This was the best description ever thanks
2024-08-13 19:00:09
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lidialuna43
Lidia :
I once hurt him and he in turn was vicious to me. He was so mean to me.
2024-08-13 01:18:47
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laconsentida824
Conchita Bonita :
Been on and off with my ex for 4 years. At the first couple of years he wouldn’t express hurtful statements, he would go silent. Towards our last breakup, he was way more expressive and so mean! We’ve
2024-08-13 00:04:43
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chiefsgirl84
Abby :
What do you do to calm yourself when you are triggered. I see all of this in myself.
2024-08-12 23:49:07
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49erfootball1
Ryan Luke :
19 month relationship, I can’t tell you how many times she’s ran for no reason at all. At least 6, have taken her back every time. I can’t do it anymore. Any advice? 💔💔
2024-08-13 00:23:06
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kiara_iveliss
𝘒𝘪𝘢𝘳𝘢🍒 :
Felt like you was talking about me
2024-08-12 23:46:49
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jeepsandgingers
katrena turner :
as a fellow FA I empathize
2024-08-13 16:55:00
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johanson732
johanson732 :
This is insanely toxic and explaining it doesn’t justify it. I’m sorry, not sorry.. this is wild
2024-08-13 16:11:00
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jules_mariani
jujuondatbeat :
i’ve broken/ended my past two relationships bc of unhealed trauma and my avoidant tendencies…
2025-01-28 05:14:54
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