@elizabethannefit: 1. You have to lift heavy to grow. You have to challenge the muscles. If you grow the muscles you shape the body. 2. You're body uses carbohydrates for fuel. Eat them. If you want the cake eat the cake. 3. Toning is building. I want to build muscle is a more clear and concise way to get the point across. #fitover40 #squats #liftingadvice #fitmom #fitmomof3