I dont need them to reassure me every five minutes. If they need distance just let me know with words and preferably why, as well as letting me know that they still love me. I dont mind giving space
2024-08-20 18:11:40
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.0UTLAWED :
Anxious people need minimal effort, tbh.
2024-08-19 08:08:34
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Jaxg8rchick :
It works all it takes is just communication it’s pretty simple
2024-08-19 16:28:40
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C :
Things I wish i knew before 😓 smh
2024-08-19 04:39:04
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Caramel :
It's actually very dangerous too💯
2024-08-19 04:33:00
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Jess :
But how can grow from this and learn from this.
2024-08-20 17:49:34
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brooksiew1 :
If the avoidant would just say hey, I love being with you, but I need a bit of space.
2024-09-03 13:49:06
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Timm :
yes
2024-08-19 11:26:36
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Keira :
what if you are both.
2024-08-21 05:47:12
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Erika Luna | Healing Journey :
Here you want space, take a mile 😂!! Something I learning to do as an anxious attachment knowing when to pull away and give that space
2024-08-19 15:43:10
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lbvs :
hardest relationship I've ever been in.
2024-08-19 18:28:19
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Chankla :
give them all the space they need. goodbye. keep you space
2024-08-22 06:35:47
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Steven :
And the avoidant never needs to give more. They just need to selfishly receive exactly what they need and disregard wildly agreed upon relationship norms. See it as soon as possible and run.
2024-08-25 16:34:06
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Aj Griffin :
your wrong we need the communication when they need distance cause then we will know why
2024-09-03 14:45:52
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kit_kat86945 :
Bad advice. I pulled away from mine and started ignoring him like he did to me and he got mad and now we’re getting divorced
2024-08-19 18:28:53
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Strawberry shortcake :
I think a lot of these are understandable though from both sides or even if someone is securely attached. If the person you love just kinda ghosts, you should be concerned or wonder what’s up
2024-08-26 19:51:05
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blueunicorn916 :
This is my current situation right now. I am anxiously attached. I am not OK with the WAY they left.
2024-09-23 20:00:35
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David B :
I understand now
2024-08-31 18:15:47
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VitaminSea🏝️ :
I gave him space thinking things would get better but 7 years has gone by and nothing has changed. He thinks b/c I gave him his space, things were “all good” b/t us. Couldn’t be further from reality though!! My self esteem is gone & I’ve never felt so lonely!
2024-09-05 08:59:58
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Geminisoflo :
Bruh if you hear them say they need space you need to practically ghost them and don’t be available for them. It’s the only way you have to make them think oh damn wait they are leaving me lol
2024-09-11 04:51:33
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chrispchar :
Anyone ever go to counseling with a DA and be successful with having your needs met??
2024-09-05 16:41:46
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Amanda :
I just need you to say you need a minute/space not just disappear.
2024-09-06 15:47:56
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Flygirlz27 :
Avoidants are energy vampires!!!!😡 THEY are the work in a relationship🙄
2024-08-31 03:42:28
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Liz :
Yes I hate being anxious
2024-08-23 16:15:11
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Slavka Z663 :
yes..but practically i keep the stuff going😳...
2024-08-27 23:58:45
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