@expatriarch: #stitch with @Cindy Noir✨ For a lot of men the struggle of hating the standards of manhood by which we feel compelled to live by is hampered by an inability to deal with criticism well. It feels like a personal attack of our very core and without the necessary tools to be able to process negative emotions in a healthy way, it gets expressed as projection, frustration, anger and rage. We need to help those men learn the tools to deal with those emotions, to be able to accept and reflect on criticism so they can then examine the ways in which the performance of social expectations is harming them. #toxicmasculinity #misogyny #patriarchy #mensmentalhealthmatters #feminist #feminism #mensmentalhealth #emotionalregulation #positivemasculinity

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MartineGrymyr :

Can they just go to therapy please

2024-08-21 12:02:28

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Moon Hox 🍉 :

this month I learned about "dismissive avoidant", I'm 35 & my life make so much sense now... I just wish I learned this 20 years earlier.

2024-08-19 13:11:23

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user7285382619048 :

Me receiving feedback at work: “thank you for the feedback.” Lady receiving feedback “ 😭 “

2024-10-18 19:00:02

Mmmmmmmmm :

We all hate being criticised it's not a man only thing but woman are socialised to put community first and that means self accountability.

2024-08-20 09:29:47

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Hey Lady Inc :

It’s like being lost and not asking for directions😤 and not wanting women to show them the way.

2024-08-19 23:00:22

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sagitariAZ :

girls are criticized way more than boys growing up, we are used to it but the time we are grown

2024-08-19 23:57:22

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qwerty :

OMG please put this in their timeline 😭

2024-08-19 22:52:55

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polonium :

great message, but I kept looking at the fly in the coffee

2024-08-20 05:20:55

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Mom :

I’m sorry…the fly in the coffee… all good info. I’m distracted.

2024-10-19 21:07:02

Louise Charlotte :

The deeply incurious thing blows my mind. How can people be satisfied existentially with shallow relationships and no meaningful connections?

2024-08-20 11:30:30

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user7285382619048 :

Me receiving feedback at work: “thank you for the feedback.” Lady receiving feedback “ 😭 “

2024-10-18 19:00:02

Queen Christine :

Wonderfully detailed. Please tell the other men. We can understand but they need this told & taught to them.

2024-08-19 19:16:17

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boricuaM13 :

Zero empathy and the lack of curiosity and the lack of intention is exhausting.

2024-08-19 22:56:56

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🇵🇸♥️ :

“What if I don’t care what other men think” is SO IMPORTANT.

2024-08-20 00:31:35

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Ashley ~ Lavender Moon 🌙 :

I wanna send this to him but I know he’ll get mad, proving this video right.

2024-08-21 13:27:00

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Svart García | Bajista :

Commenting so that hopefully this appears for more men.

2024-08-20 02:22:31

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Wren :

“Until the pain of change exceeds the pain of staying the same; No man will change.”

2024-08-22 02:21:30

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The Musings of my AuDHD Brain :

I'm here reading the comments and noticing that they are from mostly women. 😢

2024-08-21 20:02:32

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Mom :

I’m sorry…the fly in the coffee… all good info. I’m distracted.

2024-10-19 21:07:02

Moriah MorningStar :

Wait…I’m sorry but sir….is there a fly in your drink?

2024-10-16 13:43:23

Meli ✨♋️ :

Men need community of other men with whom they can open up and be vulnerable, connect and heal collectively.

2024-08-20 22:25:06

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Apsara Afsanesara :

if only more men were open to that conversation 🥺

2024-10-11 17:04:33

schrodingerwashere :

I’m older. My husband tried to act like this when we were first together, but I could tell it was false because I could read the insecurity on him. Outwardly now after 23 years he may still, but with

2024-08-19 23:27:48

TJ :

Now I have a question about that. How is it easy not to deal with or think about stressful things? How do I obtain this skill? Is it a lack of self awareness, or a conscious decision?

2024-08-19 23:24:21

agnes.bookbinder :

Can we also get them to work on accepting no? I agree w everything that was said, but that feels different.

2024-08-19 22:14:08

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Comments

MartineGrymyr :

Can they just go to therapy please

Moon Hox 🍉 :

this month I learned about "dismissive avoidant", I'm 35 & my life make so much sense now... I just wish I learned this 20 years earlier.

user7285382619048 :

Me receiving feedback at work: “thank you for the feedback.” Lady receiving feedback “ 😭 “

Mmmmmmmmm :

We all hate being criticised it's not a man only thing but woman are socialised to put community first and that means self accountability.

Hey Lady Inc :

It’s like being lost and not asking for directions😤 and not wanting women to show them the way.

sagitariAZ :

girls are criticized way more than boys growing up, we are used to it but the time we are grown

qwerty :

OMG please put this in their timeline 😭

polonium :

great message, but I kept looking at the fly in the coffee

Mom :

I’m sorry…the fly in the coffee… all good info. I’m distracted.

Louise Charlotte :

The deeply incurious thing blows my mind. How can people be satisfied existentially with shallow relationships and no meaningful connections?

user7285382619048 :

Me receiving feedback at work: “thank you for the feedback.” Lady receiving feedback “ 😭 “

Queen Christine :

Wonderfully detailed. Please tell the other men. We can understand but they need this told & taught to them.

boricuaM13 :

Zero empathy and the lack of curiosity and the lack of intention is exhausting.

🇵🇸♥️ :

“What if I don’t care what other men think” is SO IMPORTANT.

Ashley ~ Lavender Moon 🌙 :

I wanna send this to him but I know he’ll get mad, proving this video right.

Svart García | Bajista :

Commenting so that hopefully this appears for more men.

Wren :

“Until the pain of change exceeds the pain of staying the same; No man will change.”

The Musings of my AuDHD Brain :

I'm here reading the comments and noticing that they are from mostly women. 😢

Mom :

I’m sorry…the fly in the coffee… all good info. I’m distracted.

Moriah MorningStar :

Wait…I’m sorry but sir….is there a fly in your drink?

Meli ✨♋️ :

Men need community of other men with whom they can open up and be vulnerable, connect and heal collectively.

Apsara Afsanesara :

if only more men were open to that conversation 🥺

schrodingerwashere :

I’m older. My husband tried to act like this when we were first together, but I could tell it was false because I could read the insecurity on him. Outwardly now after 23 years he may still, but with

TJ :

Now I have a question about that. How is it easy not to deal with or think about stressful things? How do I obtain this skill? Is it a lack of self awareness, or a conscious decision?

agnes.bookbinder :

Can we also get them to work on accepting no? I agree w everything that was said, but that feels different.

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