@mindfullyready: I wasted years chasing the love of difficult people until I found the most important love of all—my own. Childhood trauma can shape our relationships in ways we don’t realize. #divorce #relationships #HealingJourney
Trauma makes us try to convince someone to treat us right instead of setting boundaries and walking away. We take it personally like it’s because of us that they treat us bad instead of seeing -
2024-08-20 04:21:44
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Caleb 📚 :
Literally just watched the same interview with Dr Ramani…😳🙃
2024-08-20 02:59:22
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sherimartin948 :
Wow, explains my entire life.
2024-08-20 01:37:35
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Hannah_L_1974 :
I saw that too. I have been working through my traumas and am now divorcing my husband. He hasn't changed but what I now tolerate sure has.
2024-08-20 02:22:51
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Barritt Burke :
This app is just making me sad while also shining lights. I’m not sure I’m ready for this truth 🥺
2024-08-20 05:13:08
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TheAngelspeaker :
I just saw that same interview. it's mind blowing
2024-08-20 02:19:35
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Amy Turner :
Wow That knocked my soul out!!!!!!!!!
2024-08-21 03:05:10
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hollyj73 :
and that's why we stay ... it's exhausting
2024-08-21 06:17:34
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brandidiaz2481 :
What’s crazy is I’m good at this. I get difficult patient assignments all the time.
2024-08-21 06:28:51
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Cindy :
My definitive symptom was thinking the abuse was normal.
2024-08-21 04:57:17
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SophrosyneNatureLuvR :
Fighting to win their love maybe because we always hoped to change a parent we didn’t feel it from but never completed the task so we gravitate toward similar personalities & treatment unaware we are
2024-08-20 07:32:38
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Amber :
You don’t have to come for me like that today. 😒
2024-08-21 04:11:31
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noname :
This was me until I met my husband. It’s insane how much childhood trauma shapes our whole life.
2024-08-20 03:34:40
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carenc746 :
Attachment problems was my answer and I think that’s an example of an attachment problem.
2024-08-21 03:50:14
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Kellie Gaitin :
🤯🤯🤯 omg this could of saved me years of therapy. It makes so much since know.
2024-08-21 03:10:55
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Misty Green :
This hits deep. I have a pattern of this but ai don’t feel like or remember any childhood trauma, per se
2024-08-21 00:34:03
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AmyJade.82 :
The crazy thing for me is it’s true but I am also the difficult person for him and he also has childhood trauma 💀 so it definitely can go both ways
2024-08-20 19:47:36
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bignasty479 :
you just described my wife of 17 years. I started therapy a week ago. I have anger issues. also ADHD so..... yea. I want to be good to her. gotta put in the work
2024-08-20 03:50:18
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J :
Well that's certainly accurate
2024-08-20 01:29:44
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Jen Lee :
This makes sense. I chased this until my dad took his last breath.
2024-08-20 02:02:48
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Belle and Beast fan :
What was the interview?
2024-08-20 02:20:16
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😊 :
💯 I didn’t have childhood trauma, but I was married to an abusive man for 16 years. This is spot on.
2024-08-20 01:27:08
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🤍Alisa :
I just saw that interview and it absolutely rocked my world. It’s the central theme of my life because of my mother 😢
2024-08-20 05:42:14
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@jessatay :
I just reposted this.
I feel attacked 😂 😬. I also feel seen.
2024-08-20 05:34:19
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MsRieRie aka Marie :
Growing up in trauma and healing is the hardest ball to unravel. Learning to leave those who don’t value us, or make us feel safe and secure as soon as we clock it is vital.
2024-08-22 00:38:29
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