Heal with Darlene✨
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Wednesday 21 August 2024 15:17:34 GMT
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Lissy :
At this point I know my ex was a dismissive avoidant and sabotaged it. It came out of nowhere & made no sense. It’s devastating, knowing how good and right we were…but he wasn’t ready to accept love❤️
2024-08-21 16:07:05
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Corinne 🇨🇦 :
that is why he broke up. fear, fear and fear. And 3 months later, he's still into those fears. I'm pretty much done with him. I worked on myself and I can't change him. it's exhausting and I'm tired.
2024-08-21 16:56:13
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savy sav :
Thank you for this.
2025-01-17 19:21:39
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girlinpieces :
it's been a year since he self sabotaged our relationship. He's been back on the apps and still can't find the next. He knew how great were were together, would tell me all the time, then one day it was, I can't do this anymore and ran.
2024-08-21 17:45:58
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Ali, Goldie, & Rosie 💖 :
He broke no contact on Sunday to tell me how much he’s been missing me and his regrets. He just hasn’t done anything to try to change so the patterns will remain. I’m so sad.
2024-08-21 16:29:48
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linds :
How do I handle them now wanting to be friends? I was out of country for months after the breakup but now I’m coming back… Feel like they want to have me around even tho they’re afraid of dating
2024-08-21 16:52:41
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onmymomma :
he self sabotaged and i haven’t heard from him in 6 months 😭 he’s making music ab how he regrets tho. will i ever hear directly from him???
2024-08-21 16:18:49
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Chloe M. Giroux :
He broke down from external issues and thought breaking up was best for his mental health…we’re taking a 1 month no contact break and seeing if what we have is salvageable
2024-08-21 18:49:32
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Margradosbajo0 :
so do they ever regret their decision?
2024-08-21 18:31:19
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Melissa Wood :
Saying he had a separate himself for his mental health. After two months, plus knowing he’s an avoidant now, who knows if he’ll reach out.But he knows I made him as happy as he has been in years.
2024-08-22 16:34:54
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candi 🌈 :
Yes relationship hit a crisis point making a lot of fear and anxiety
2024-08-21 15:35:24
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shane :
I lost my job ....my relationship etc however I start to create a direction for long term plan leveling up furthering my education get a better paying job etc so who knows I will be better version
2024-08-21 16:54:12
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user4749489911289 :
Fear yet they seem happy in another relationship 💀
2024-08-21 22:00:51
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Travis :
What if she is on tinder a week after ?
2024-08-21 17:39:58
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Jin Yu Gammage :
I feel like we both did… he “ came back” but not properly.. had a rough phone conversation.. then blocked.. it’s been 8 months .. 😭 idk what to do
2024-08-21 17:17:03
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Gina The Too Much Woman™ :
if that's where they are, do not accept that back into your life unless they are committed to MAJOR work. and most arent
2024-08-26 19:27:23
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Martina :
God I’ve been waiting for 9 months and I’m so done 🥺
2024-08-21 19:25:06
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Ilse :
love hurts😭
2024-09-28 14:21:05
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HurdleTheCorpse :
Do you have any examples of self sabotage? Like feeling guilty about talking to a guy and going to see him anyway but still feeling regret after?
2024-08-21 21:49:29
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paintedgypsy519♡ :
the pain of betrayal and being left on that and I am not that person who would want that for him or us. it has messed me up as a person. I operate in heart and feel so wronged!
2024-08-22 14:48:48
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rayyyy063 :
Or they found someone else they admire more or respect more.
2024-08-22 09:38:43
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internet user :
I think this was him- unfortunately it’s even more complicated post-grad and us having to be long-distance so now we both see the breakup as practical despite still being torn up about it.
2024-08-21 15:48:29
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jarnettal :
Thanks
2024-08-21 22:48:30
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Sana :
What if they self sabotaged and then got into a relationship 5 months later? It’s been 2 years and he’s not got in touch
2024-08-22 00:11:35
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Aimee :
So what if they did that and got into new Relationship ?
2024-08-22 03:16:40
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