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Genuine question : my mom used to be like this but upon working herself and me attending my own therapy she’s not anymore, does that make her not a narcissist and it’s smth else when she did act this-
2024-08-22 23:18:42
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freifamilyfun :
Somehow, I’ve finally escaped the consequences of my parents’ actions. I’ve gone full no-contact for my own emotional/mental health. The last time she put me on silent treatment is the last time.
2024-11-06 12:19:37
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Morgan :
Grew up on the silent treatment
2024-08-22 23:59:54
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Khadijah♥️ :
This is so scary how accurate this is ….
2024-08-22 23:52:16
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whatsmyname :
wait so this is not normal
2024-08-23 16:37:46
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luna :
I'm 35 and recently realised that my mum would choose clothes for me *nothing i ever liked, then ask me if anyone complemented me at school, i would lie and say yes so shed be happy...
2024-08-23 20:01:02
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Theta Mind :
“the most important thing isn’t how you feel, its what others think of me” 🥺
2024-08-23 07:08:20
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J . :
Oh.. this explains.. a LOT.
2024-11-08 10:03:33
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DRodSellsFlorida :
I have been like this in the past with my kids. Not intentionally at all. They’re teenagers now, How do I right my wrongs?
2024-08-31 02:21:06
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Ashleigh Marie :
Trying to co-parent in the same household as a narc parent is one of the most stressful, painful things I’ve ever done. Trying to protect my kids from his cruel belittling words & behaviors is imp
2024-11-06 16:51:40
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zeit :
When I was young, I was strong willed & lashed out bc I was very aware of how she was behaving & called it like I saw it. But then in my 20s, I became a ppl pleaser, etc - why did that happen?
2024-08-23 01:26:39
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KklLlkk :
That's like 80% of moms who were born in 60-70s
2024-10-08 02:32:17
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Shelby Ann 🌻 :
Dr. Nicole some of us are just trying to dissociate on this app during lunch okay? 😭
2024-08-23 18:47:54
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rachkueb :
Listened to the motherhood wound episode again recently and wondering how to navigate a narcissistic mother in having compassion and understanding for the way she is?
2024-08-23 17:24:16
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Lee Clark929 :
I'd love to hear your perspective on how economic status affects narcissistic behavior. bc in my xp, rich vs poor makes a big difference in patterns
2024-08-23 16:17:46
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Carli Johnson :
This is my "dad" to a T. He used to parade us around like he was a great dad in front of women. Then used the child support he got for car parts. We went without food and clean clothes for 4 years.
2024-08-23 18:34:35
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Mommy Glittersparkles :
I realized I would never be good enough to please her and I spent so long trying to be what she wanted me to be that I underachieved because I didn't know what I wanted for myself.
2024-08-24 14:17:24
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rawog القهوة اللي تـ روُّق :
how to overcome this 😭
2024-08-23 16:04:55
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Alexandra Raluca :
the only thing that I like to know is what can I do to get over this "trauma" 😅
2024-08-23 20:27:52
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o.0zz2 :
u sounds like my dad
2024-11-01 13:24:18
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Saelis Negron :
This is 100% my mother. I’m glad I’ve gone no contact with her. She always favored & rewarded my sister, and they’re one and the same. They don’t love me and are fine without me!
2024-09-05 15:11:19
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Stefan Milosevic :
Wow, well this hit like a ton of bricks... 🧱 😳
2024-08-22 23:28:23
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user2857451944112 :
Going low contact was the only way to save my sanity. My mom still does this and she’s almost 70.
2024-08-23 04:59:22
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