@theparentingreframe: How do you respond to a child who is screaming at you during a tantrum? #tantrum #tantrums #emotionalregulation #toddlertantrums #selfregulation #reparenting #meltdown
how do I calm myself down? I struggle with not screaming back
2024-08-27 00:41:03
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Agi032003 :
my 3 yr old son wines and cries about everything.....any suggestions?
2024-08-28 00:48:15
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CMJ :
I tell them don’t talk to me until u finishing yelling. And she’s 3.
2024-09-03 18:10:19
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Jessplansmagic :
What if they are kicking or hitting you?
2024-08-30 00:45:38
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officialmonikajade :
Im freaking tired
2025-11-19 03:30:47
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Christene :
I would tell mine I can’t understand you until I can hear you, so once you stop screaming I can hear you better.
2024-08-28 01:39:40
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Daniellecollette :
I say calmly “When you’re feeling calm, I’m here for you when you’re ready. We can talk when you’re ready.” I give her space but stay in the same room. 1/2
2024-08-27 02:46:10
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KimB :
I had a coach say when they are experiencing choas, if you add to the chaos you will only ever get more chaos. And that stuck with me!
2024-09-09 00:42:37
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Girlythings311 :
I have a tendency to keep giving the reassurance and hugs and then when it doesn’t help I end up upset… ugh!! Maybe I need to limit the “I know kiddos” and the “you can do hard things
2024-08-26 18:01:48
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Almita💫 :
This was me last night with my 61/2 . Don’t know what to do anymore 😫
2024-08-29 13:24:40
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Jess :
I'm struggling with this specifically in the morning because I have to work, I don't have time to do all the steps
2024-08-29 14:21:22
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Rachel :
i still use skin to skin as a method of helping my son through tantrums and he's three. i dont want to ignore him and leave him feeling abandoned but i wont let him scream at me either. skin to skin-
2024-08-26 17:47:01
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Alicia 🫶🏼🥎🥋🏳️🌈 :
When you say younger child appropriate, what age are you referring to? My daughter is 5 and still does this on the daily.
2024-08-26 17:37:35
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Michaela🙈 :
What if my child has autism and this sounds bad but every bad day is just full of him screaming non stop and will not talk at all
2024-09-11 06:06:26
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Kaylene Whitworth :
🥺this is so hard.. going through this with my almost 3 year old. he has very big emotions
2024-08-30 04:37:01
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danielle_flory :
You just solved an issue I had. I always get more heated when someone doesn’t match my energy, it’s because my mom always scream matched with me. Now a calm person doesn’t feel safe
2024-08-26 17:54:03
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Mona Sarah Baptista :
My child 8 and she still does it screaming shouting
2024-10-21 14:10:17
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J :
what happens with the job they were given to do but have a meltdowns instead? do i leave the mess for them to clean later? or should I do it myself? my daughter will pick up things and throw them duri
2024-09-03 23:19:18
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Susan :
i go into defensive mode and basically ignore him until he calms down on his own. what if touching his arm ect to show im there will prolong the tantrum?what’s another method to show im there for him?
2024-09-03 04:46:18
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Samuel T :
this is EXACTLY my approach with my 4 yrold. Offer compassion n empthy/understanding and affection (open my arms for a hug if she wants it). and if she continues i just sit with her calmly.
2024-09-11 19:00:36
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Meticulous_Bori :
When he yells I tell him to please talk to me so that I can know what's wrong, usually works. If he keeps yelling I tell him he can come to me when he's ready. We inhale/exhale as well.
2024-08-26 16:46:48
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Fresita_platanita :
I usually add to what you say, when you are ready to talk I’m here .
2024-10-17 16:27:57
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madmaddiedesigns :
How long do you let them scream? I’m afraid mine is gonna make herself sick
2026-04-28 15:54:55
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Faith :
my 11 month old just yells at me. She has some pipes, how do I handle this? I'll be cooking for me and I'm trying to do something and she'll SCREAM basically saying hey give me attention, but I can't drop everything all the time 🥲
2025-09-15 01:18:53
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dancingyourway1 :
I step over him and go to another room and sit down. If he follows me I get up and go to another room, good luck! After he calms down I ask him what’s happening do you need to talk, then I listen.
2024-08-26 16:39:48
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