First time ever dealing with an avoidant.. this is the hardest situation I ever have been in
2024-08-26 21:13:40
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Todd Lamantia :
why is it so hard to get over these people. No effort from their side in our relationship and it still kills me. I cant understand it.
2024-08-26 17:16:34
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Karla_Duran1030 :
WOW ! That’s exactly what he told me ! He said “I can’t give you what you want”. All I wanted was a conversation and for consistency 💁🏻♀️not that hard
2024-08-27 18:55:46
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David Evans9995 :
I am the avoidant, I recognise this now, and I’m working on myself.
2024-08-26 22:25:57
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Korean-chick :
Avoidants don’t come back. They can’t deal w conflict, hence, can never come back to talk through what/why happened. Ladies, let him go.
2024-09-27 02:00:49
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Myan :
He started to reach out again after I decided to end my efforts. I had to remind him that he asked for this to end. He does not get to have access to me whenever he wants.
2024-08-27 15:41:52
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Phillie💞 :
The hardest part about no contact has to be the fact that you know and really know that when you stop reaching out, they will too, not because they’re necessarily bad people but they also won’t chase
2024-08-29 16:57:19
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Kristin faith :
no contact doesn't work on a avoidant. no contact is for us to heal. the more I learn about avoidance the more I understand they normally never come back. I work with mine everyday and he walks past
2025-03-04 00:11:01
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Amanda Kelsey :
I didn’t know that he was an avoidant and now or all makes sense. Sadly I kept trying too long 😫
2024-08-26 19:50:09
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jojoaotnz :
Do it for yourself. Not for them.
2024-08-26 18:03:24
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Sammie :
It’s no contact for me but it feels like a normal day for them 🥺
2024-10-20 14:24:40
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Luisa :
Yea he broke up with me again after just proposing 2.5 months ago. I have no desire to reach out bc I deserve better
2024-08-26 17:56:54
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AtariTheDramaHun 🥤🍿 :
he ignored me, archived my chat and treated me like I didn't matter. I was hurt, cried, was shattered. then I sent one last message mad as hell. blocked him, changed numbers and deleted social media
2024-10-10 18:10:57
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Aaron Rodriguez :
nah these people are not worth the heartache unless they are making an effort to improve
2024-08-26 20:39:49
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Lungi :
It's not easy but we need to hold our boundaries. I hope they get the help they need cause they can't continue hurting people.
2024-08-26 18:03:20
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SnookOnTheFly :
Side note. Go Tampa!!
2024-08-27 11:28:44
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Tina :
mine doesn't want us to stop talking but he just doesn't want anything serious, so I stopped responding to him
2024-10-17 03:17:02
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Stairway681 :
Almost 6 months no contact yes excruciating emotional pain yet I’m working on my career I must reach my goal with or without him .. no choice but to be strong on our own I wish him well always
2024-08-26 18:28:43
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kenzie :
my ex broke NC last night after 2 months and its still the same thing. Avoidants don't change
2024-08-26 18:42:41
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Loulou :
i broke no contact multiple times but now I’m officially done. And I genuinely need to keep telling myself that no empathy and little to no caring is a sign. Being hypersensitive and anxious 💔
2024-08-27 07:28:48
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EmiGM :
I go no contact with all my Exes for ever.
2024-08-27 00:58:58
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Romi Bitan :
My ex said he was looking for a relationship so we started dating and than after three months he broke up with me after he dropped me at the airport via text when a was on the plane
2024-11-15 17:12:37
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Fidelkarner🇰🇪 :
They always come back after sometime 💯
2024-11-19 20:03:46
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jefferycrocker :
This is the first person who has said something that makes sense about no contact.
2024-11-15 15:34:00
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