@autisticayla: this is how most of my conversations with my ND friends go... both of us having two completely separate conversations 😅😂 yet somehow related!! this is one of the social struggles i face being AuDHD. it can be hard to know when it's appropriate to ask questions, share about my experience, or simply listen. at the end of the day, i have people that accept me (even if i can't stop talking about my current hyperfixation) #autism #audhd #actuallyautistic #neurodivergent #neurodiversity #neurodiverse
I think it's a difference of identifying the topic. NT communication the topic is cooking/ Pizza. The ND topic is what we did last night
2024-08-29 18:23:48
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Marshmallow :
I catch myself doing this alot with any kind of person and then I start to get super anxious that they think I'm trying to make things about me. I'm listening, I'm sharing and trying to show I get it.
2024-08-28 23:06:24
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mixednative95 :
i need someone that has this style of conversation it's a lot more satisfying
2024-12-15 15:31:07
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Nimrod :
I frequently forget people won’t just tell me about their day. I have to remember to ask 😅
2024-08-29 01:11:59
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HealthInsuranceVictimsMemorial :
I need more spectrum friends, this conversation was so nice 😂
2024-08-29 17:21:19
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Shane :
I've been seeing people talk about how you have to ask questions to have a conversation and like, the questions are implied? aren't NT people supposed to be able to read between the lines???
2024-08-29 02:19:52
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Ti💤y McGuire :
I don’t know how else to communicate 😅
2024-08-28 23:39:22
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Takski :
Sometimes I catch myself doing this with neurological people who are looking at me odd for it. Automatically change over to focusing on their thing and asking questions but it's sooo boring
2024-08-29 05:47:11
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Megan :
Me watching this trying to figure out what's wrong with it
2024-09-01 06:44:45
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gick and borty :
but to me it sounds like the pizza person wasn’t done talking and they would have rather shared everything about their pizza experience in one go
2024-08-29 19:43:14
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mor101112 :
And then you get accused of making about yourself 😩 like I’m relating to your story, showing I understand. who else am I suppose to talk about? Do you want me to repeat your story back to you???
2024-09-01 18:07:52
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Ari :
I’m confused is this not just a regular conversation
2024-08-30 20:05:54
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cozy | كوزي :
honestly a convo like this is so nice and makes me feel more heard bc i feel like the other person understands the underlying Emotion behind what im saying lol. granted i am nd so 😅
2024-08-29 08:33:44
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Dazed Beyond Destiny :
fluid nuerodivergent conversing. 🤟
2024-08-28 21:33:35
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ciara ✩˚ ༘⋆。˚ ❀ :
Where are your headphones from?! I need new ones for college to survive having meltdowns from the noisy classrooms
2024-08-31 22:39:02
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Hannah 🌸 :
I feel like this is why neurotic calls feel like people on the spectrum or with ADHD tend to talk about themselves too much but it’s like no. I relate to this topic even though it seems unrelated.
2024-08-30 01:25:54
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tay :
i've always called this a double convo and they're some of my favorites bc we're both addressing each others points
2024-08-29 20:26:55
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Lamontmp3 :
This is how I communicate. But most of my friends arnt ND and get frustrated/confused
2024-09-02 03:51:24
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Simiko :
omg it felt so good to listen to them speak😭 i want to have someone i can have those conversations with
2024-08-31 21:08:07
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serena._. :
my sister and i almost only converse this way whenever we talk, i love it sm
2024-08-30 05:29:58
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Faelynn Cooper :
My sister and I do this so well that we decided to live together 😭✌️my fiance just stares and tries to absorb anything he can catch
2024-09-03 04:50:27
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kai (conan’s version)🌙✨💤 :
as a nd person this bothers me so bad, if i’m talking about what I did, i want to talk abt me for a second and then u can say what you did
2024-09-07 15:48:18
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ScagMaxxing :
IS THIS NOT A CONVERSATION?
2024-10-10 21:45:48
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lyn :
this just makes sense. it’s all connected.
2024-09-05 00:44:41
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