@tikabobika: I used to be so scared of motherhood 4+ years ago because I genuinely thought I would have to give up my dreams. Being on the otherside for 3 years, I have worked really hard to maintain my identity and the things that re-energize me. The opposite actually happened for me, where I felt motherhood helped me come out of my shell. I gained confidence not only in my style but also knowing the type of people I want in my circle as well as the life I want to live. Getting invited by @Marshalls and @RAILS (dress from them btw) to attend such inspiring events would truly have had 2018 Tika beaming with pride. If you are a woman scared that you have to lose your identity because it’s the expectation of motherhood, then please see my page as inspiration that you don’t. You are not selfish for not wanting to lose you, and you will be an amazing mom if that’s the path you choose! Dress- Rails Shoes- @Sam Edelman . . #momadvice #momlife #happymom #momsover30 #momfashion #fallstyle #fallfashion #momootd #momstyle #momootd #happymom