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jewelweaver1111 :
I (autistic) learned that when you overshare without giving the other person time to earn your trust first, it makes you ultimately distrustful of them. It makes you feel insecure, too.
2024-08-30 00:42:06
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mo :
I have adhd/cptsd. it's hard to take accountability for the ways our behavior has been toxic, but learning & managing it protects you from truly toxic ppl! it's our responsible for managing our adhd
2024-08-30 01:03:38
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♡ :
I’ve been saying for a while now that there is a dangerous pattern on this app of people starting to use being neurodivergent as a shield against accountability and it’s getting out of hand
2024-08-30 00:06:12
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anifragmento :
I am audhd and I get tired of explaining this. Thank you
2024-08-30 00:59:57
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shro :
Being vulnerable and authentic does not mean you tell all of your business to everybody. Would you tell your grandma or a teenager this info? Then don’t tell a stranger!
2024-08-29 23:55:36
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Happybless :
I’ve been in very abusive/pretty codependent relationships with other people who also have ADHD because I kept focusing on that positive intent/they don’t mean harm and ignoring my discomfort.
2024-08-30 06:57:54
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Tati 🦋 :
In retrospect I was not sure if my parents are narcisstic or have adhd/autism but I realized it does not matter. None of these conditions excuses their problematic behavior and I will never use my*
2024-08-30 10:59:58
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Memyselfandiplus5 :
as a neurodivergent,I agree with you..sadly,I had no one to help me navigate how to set boundaries for myself and how to protect ppl from my awkwardness..i have had to pull myself out of severe depres
2024-08-30 03:28:02
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courtney33633 :
This has been a hard to digest topic. I always saw myself as an open book. I’m my most authentic self being honest about my experiences, & use my own experiences to empathize w/others.
2024-08-30 14:57:49
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HoneyLemon :
Taking responsibility is so important. It's the first step to all healing. Healing yourself, healing your relationships and being a healer in the world 💞
2024-08-30 01:06:06
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arcaneofroses :
I’m neurodivergent but I didn’t realize how toxic and energy sucking a lot of my old behavior was. I stopped trauma dumping once I reached a certain age because it only put me in bad situations.
2024-08-30 01:01:17
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fkaprofessorjessie :
Trauma dumping is a red flag for me because I know there is going to be an imbalance in emotional labor and I will end up being expected to co-regulate. I have to protect myself, too.
2024-08-30 00:29:56
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DaCat007 :
no,social norms are built on problematic ideas that we don't all agree on.I'm saying this as a frequent social norms breaker.we get to individually decide how to exisist and face the consequences.
2024-08-29 23:47:00
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not_today_satan :
the hardest part of healing from narcissistic abuse, was realizing I was the other side of that coin. the "empath" aka no boundaries/self respect/or self worth. I had to heal instead of blaming him.
2024-08-31 17:12:14
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Mayra Diaz :
💯 Intent doesn’t equal 🟰 impact
2024-08-29 23:49:21
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DizzyDame☮️ :
all conversations require consent from all parties involved. make sure you have it.
2024-08-30 01:51:52
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Alaina :
I met my husband unhealed, and while I can say that we’re on a better path now, it was absolutely unhealthy and codependent the way we enmeshed ourselves at first and it’s done real damage to both of
2024-08-30 14:35:40
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Clarapasstschon :
I had to learn this the hard way. 😢
2024-08-30 06:15:13
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kris the viking healing lady :
Yes queen sing it
2024-08-30 06:10:26
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L🐍🪐 :
I've been diagnosed with ADHD for 8 years now and I feel like I've recently arrived to a point where I have VERY little patience for neurodivergents who think they should get to act however they want
2024-08-30 10:00:17
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DaCat007 :
and we can be individuals and I don't mean any sort of abusive behavior. but with respect to you, plenty of us have good reason to not uphold certain norms. 🤷🏽♀️💃🏽
2024-08-29 23:48:02
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jlofitz :
I've (ADHD/CPTSD) had to teach myself how to hold back and I've noticed a huge difference in the people I draw in. it takes longer to become closer but they're people I can count on.
2024-09-01 14:44:43
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whatever2828 :
uhm I guess the problem is the definition of what trauma dump and love bomb is for each person. There r societies where being mininally emotional is a problem and I dont think thats great either.
2024-08-30 00:22:05
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