@sexedfiles: TW: discussing SA and trauma There is no one perfect way to have safe, hot and confident se* after experiencing SA. It takes work and a pretty good understanding of your needs and triggers, but have self compassion and be patient with yourself. Good se*, whether or not you’re a survivor requires preparation and communication. But ultimately do your best to focus on pl*asure, safety, being present and connected. Don’t force anything. You deserve to connect to your body and s**uality again on your own terms ❤️🩹 #healing #healingprocess #HealingJourney #MentalHealth