@abbiechatfield: Replying to @E. I want women to have higjer expectations, havinf low expecations was what kept me in toxic dynamics for so long. The things he does arent extravagant or unrealistic, we just love and care for each other in everything we do. Would love to hear everyones thoughts in the comments though!! ❤️
I’m 5 years into my relationship. I’ve had my period this week and this man set a timer to reheat my heat pack, wouldn’t let me move off the couch, cooked and cleaned up all my meals. When I asked him to “chill” cause I felt bad he told me that I would do the same for him, and questioned why I can’t accept the help that I’d do for anyone.
2024-08-31 11:56:03
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Ami - mindset, hauls, mum life :
Louder for the people in the back 👏🏼👏🏼
2024-09-01 10:41:30
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Cat Evans :
I can’t wait until I find enough of the broken pieces of myself to gather up the strength to see the world in this way….I dream of a day where my cup is so full 🥺💕
2024-08-31 11:30:14
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Kardo Newman :
You are super logical and extremely progressive minded. Love hearing your insights ✨
2024-09-19 17:17:12
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S.S reads :
My husband and I have been together for 10 years and people said in the beginning that it’s honeymoon phase - he’s literally MORE amazing to me every day. It’s totally realistic to want a wonderful partner and be one yourself 🥰
2024-09-09 10:21:06
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Hydz :
that's so true
2024-09-07 14:41:02
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Rachael Hayes :
You nailed it, and this double standard in our society really annoys me
2024-10-10 21:24:06
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Jodie Fletcher :
Hands down!!! 100 percent.
2024-09-26 03:13:50
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Chey :
I’ve been single for 5 years because I refuse to accept the bare minimum again..I won’t allow myself to be treated anything less then ever again
2024-10-30 23:03:30
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athena joy :
absolutely nothing wrong with encouraging women to know their worth and have high standards!! 💖✨️
2024-09-05 00:49:28
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Karina :
Hard agree- been with my husband for 5 years and even after 2 kids we’ve barely had a real argument. My expectations are extremely high!
2024-09-02 01:25:04
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soph :
Needed to hear this today thank youuuuu ♥️
2024-08-31 01:18:26
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Bernadette :
I just came out of a toxic situation and I had low expectations, I’ll never do it again. I want the unrealistic expectations.
2024-08-31 01:31:36
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swady01 :
I completely agree with you! I’m in my first healthy relationship and any issues we have had we have worked through quickly and respectfully. It’s such a relief after what I’ve endured.
2024-08-31 08:46:13
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ELSKA :
My husband & I have been together 15 yrs as a couple & never been more connected, supported & in love. Our relationship is so easy & there are no stresses. Can we normalise this please ❤️
2024-10-15 21:36:13
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Aggy :
It’s sad that people see an attentive partner as ‘unrealistic expectation’.
2024-10-16 02:15:34
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Holdenfan1 :
We have lowered the bar and we shouldn’t settle . Finding someone who gives you want you need is sometimes hard but worth it. I also think coming from a toxic one makes you appreciate it so much more
2024-10-22 01:31:32
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sophie :
Appreciate that you are lucky to have found your person. Everyone has to experience their own journey. Many women are not ready for the right person. Timing and maturity.
2024-09-30 01:25:36
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Leonie :
I think you are just extremely lucky to find a great man, simple as that,no explanation needed he's just a great guy and he obviously loves you and you love him, enjoy the love 🥰
2024-09-06 09:54:05
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kikilangdon :
LOVE THIS!! It’s so beautiful you are putting all your amazing moments on here because it’s setting the most positive example of what a relationship should be! 💖
2024-08-31 15:00:11
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LT :
took me 39 years to find my otter half and your relationship is so much like ours! don't know many others the same
2024-08-31 01:22:11
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Harv :
I made a cake for my wife’s birthday today and she told a colleague, who then said “my husband has never made me a cake” but like its bare minimum
2024-09-03 09:39:26
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fossilrosaceae :
Agreed 💯. It's actually not unrealistic nor unsustainable if you're with just an actually kind, caring and thoughtful human ❤️
2024-10-29 01:49:16
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