At 50, once young and pretty, I approve this message.
2024-09-03 16:36:57
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HannieLou :
Becoming a mother took my understanding of the patriarchy to another level.
2024-09-04 19:36:49
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Jules :
Men were so kind when I was young. I’d drop a pencil & 3 guys would run to pick it up. 30 years later, I’ve literally fallen down, had trouble getting up and no one even looked. You become invisible.
2024-09-04 23:44:53
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whowhathuh? :
I was super hot in my teens early 20s, then I got pregnant, gained 100lbs and was never treated the same again.Now am back to myself and I know better 😤
2024-09-03 17:42:13
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Your Freedom To Thrive 🇨🇦 :
I didn’t feel it until I became a mom and BAM !! 💥 Slapped by patriarchy so hard I’m still down
2024-09-03 02:41:25
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Cumbias Borrascosas :
The fact that so many women learn this lesson so late
2024-09-03 20:37:59
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vanessa june 🇮🇹🇬🇧 :
Luckily I was never “agreeable” so I got spoiler alerts since I was very young. Saved me a lot of years of physical and mental labour!
2024-09-03 10:53:57
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Merryploppins🍉 :
Ive never been pretty, most men have always met me with a sneer or ignored me. Now that I'm menopausal I'm glad, because the shock for beautiful women must be so hard.
2024-09-03 18:47:34
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Sahar Olivia Adams :
If ur attractive enough, u don't have to be agreeable, then you get older and you realize, it's too late to start being agreeable because they already don't like u.
2024-09-03 20:31:14
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Veronica Cressy Skidmore :
💜💜💜 At 72yo I think this message needs to go viral! Feminism is message for everyone! 💜💜💜🥰
2024-09-03 19:50:14
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Chychy Bae :
I used to think my father was the best when I was younger and my mom was just an angry woman but then I grew up and realized why she was like that. I am sorry now that I felt that way about her
2024-09-04 22:00:16
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Marylilll :
When I started noticing how men in my workplace were only nice/cordial to those they found attractive, it made everything make sense.
2024-09-17 22:37:45
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krolewnazcaroliny :
Super well said! Sharing with my twenty smth daughters! 💜
2024-09-02 21:49:22
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Fer Ortiz: Sombra y Cuerpo :
En mi adolescencia no era para nada bonita y los hombres me trataban como si no valiera nada. Ahora soy bonita y sé que por eso son buenos conmigo, porque ya quieren algo de mí 🙄
2024-09-04 16:47:00
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Juliet :
“Everyone wants a kitten, but nobody wants a cat” -Betty Broderick
2024-09-14 20:34:59
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Tati :
Minhas amigas só aprenderam isso quando se divorciaram e viraram mães solo. Dei risada pq na minha vez eu tava exagerando
2024-10-06 19:03:18
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Aeris Parker :
Turned 40 this year and this is 100% 😭 And I look great for my age. I used to think older women were bitter but they were just more knowledgeable.
2024-09-04 15:27:12
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Megan :
they will delude themselves that it's because youth = attractiveness. that's not true. attractiveness determines attractiveness. youth as an attribute just means you're vulnerable. took me a decade
2024-09-03 11:24:39
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Just_Zoie_ :
Yesss when I benefited so much from it I was blinddddd
2024-09-03 05:23:56
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SP :
always understood it intellectually but felt it HARD when I turned 40. I realises I no longer existed to the male gaze. I was shocked and sad at first then it felt liberating ✨
2024-09-04 07:11:53
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Deu na Telha :
I used to be a model and was highly sexualized. I never felt comfortable with it. But now, at 33 and a lot of pounds heavier, I notice the huge, huuuge difference in treatment.
2024-09-05 17:29:12
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Ren :
100% had an anti-feminist phase. Took my first college women’s studies course to “prove myself right.” But by the end, I was introduced to what the patriarchy was doing. It changed me forever.
2024-09-11 14:02:31
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