@tiyechambers: #boundaryup when a person pretends as if nothing happened after doing you wrong, it’s more than just a desire for you to move past it — it’s a deliberate attempt to cause you inner conflict. 🤔 Do you call them out? Do you go along with the ruse? After all they are being nice. This is manipulation! While you’re in conflict with yourself, they’re protecting their image and making you carry the burden of their actions. It’s ok to stop that behavior in its tracks by setting a boundary of communication. “I’m not interested in engaging with you like this, given the history of what was done.” — this puts the burden of their behavior back where it belongs, on their shoulders. It’s never rude to protect your peace by refusing to participate in chaos. #boundaries #encouragement #toxicrelationship #gaslighting #healingtrauma #selflove #selfrespect #youdeservebetter #iamenough
The worst part is when they say “I don’t remember it that way.” Or try to convince you that it never happened.
2024-09-04 00:50:33
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Avuyonke Klaas :
"It's not rude to protect your peace by refusing to participate in chaos"
2024-09-03 15:15:25
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aubreymorifi :
Love your voice🥰
2025-08-20 19:55:41
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alwayskyuudou :
I had 6 months of this. I blew up...and got the blame and the aggressor narrative got placed at my feet.
2024-09-03 05:17:52
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Becks in the City :
My mum used to do this all the time. As a child; it’s difficult.
2025-07-24 10:49:11
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pendoh :
it's not rude to protect your peace, this💯
2024-09-03 09:27:03
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Ashley Brookshire :
Old me used to tolerate a LOT of BS. New me walked away from a friendship I previously considered a "ride or die" over it.
2024-09-02 22:46:16
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Sonia :
I will be at fault and start acting like a victim, God should have mercy on me
2025-08-20 11:25:18
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PRINCE_PAUL🔱👑✅ :
I was a victim. but not anymore
2024-09-02 22:16:57
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🙌👏🙌 :
No response is a response👏👏👏
2024-10-30 20:59:57
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Unmasking Love :
The greatest peace is walking away without expecting an apology from someone who will never accept accountability for their actions.
2024-11-10 18:09:17
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WEDNESDAY PEOPLE :
Never recount your experiences with them because they will deny and refuse to accept or apologize anyway. Just move with your boundaries
2025-06-28 03:13:34
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Dovies :
The nerve of these people.
2024-10-30 17:13:11
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S 🧿 :
I'm surrounded by these types of people. I've never understood why people don't address their behaviour and apologise when warranted. Thank you for the education
2024-09-03 10:56:00
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Sandramae25 :
And do not explain what was done!!!! They were there when they did it!!!
2024-11-16 17:09:27
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Brandon Endzone Chil :
@Brandon Endzone Chil: I’ve been making this mistake where she didn’t want to give closure, and her knowing that’s all I need, so I’ve been chasing for answers, and reacting. Now im being blamed. But all it is, is to keep me confused and blaming myself. I forgive myself now, and healing now.
2025-05-28 16:01:07
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Islin Inspire :
if you ever encounter this type of person, RUN AWAY from them
2024-10-15 13:58:02
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franobano :
mu sister exactly like this, 👍
2025-06-16 17:25:53
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Hawi 🇰🇪 :
💥💥💥 I experienced this last week and here I was feeling guilty for shutting them out.. boundaries up
❤️❤️❤️
2024-09-03 16:39:15
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BahamianEmpress👑 :
Offering an apology don’t always justify accountability. Theirs a difference
2024-09-03 12:05:36
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Oriana Santos :
Next thing; when I express how I’m feeling he says things like; “yeah what about how I feel?” Is this just not gaslighting?😅 I feel like this isn’t healthy.. am I wrong?
2024-12-03 21:18:45
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Pepper Ann✌🏾 :
I am now no contact with both of my parents for this exact thing. I simply don't answer when they call, or reply when they text. I am done with their chaos.
2024-09-04 06:13:13
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Espi :
Because of my upbringing, I’m so desensitized that people get away with a lot of unacceptable behavior around me.
2024-09-05 22:49:39
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