@matthiasjbarker: Do THIS to protect yourself from gaslighting: When someone denies or twists the truth, don’t get sucked into the argument by trying to prove your point or get them to admit they’re wrong. Instead, state your perspective calmly and step away from the conversation. It’s natural to want to prove them wrong or convince them to see your side, but here’s the hard truth: you can’t make someone who’s committed to being irrational become rational. Arguing with a gaslighter only feeds into their game. But when you step away from the conversation, you take away their power to manipulate you and protect your own sense of reality. #gaslight #gaslighting #gaslighter #gaslit #manipulation #manipulative

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elco524
Elco524 :
You mean, I’m not supposed to tell them that they’re gaslighting me and explain myself until I’m in tears? Whoops! 🤭
2024-09-04 15:41:01
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chrispy189
Chrispy189 :
What if I forgot. Is that gaslighting? Or is she gaslighting me? 😞
2024-09-04 15:08:38
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cristal09020
Cristal Wynn-Sartin :
Fact…So good
2024-11-04 12:42:43
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dustythunder_
Dusty Thunder :
"You can't convince someone who's committed to being irrational to be rational." 👏👏👏
2024-09-04 19:28:45
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a_voice_in_the_void
a voice in the void :
Whether it's intentional gaslighting or not it's a best practice to stay calm🥰
2024-09-05 16:32:15
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tiredhiker13
tiredhiker13 :
Not my teenage daughter gaslighting me on a daily basis
2024-09-20 03:39:40
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monicajclay
Monica 🎨 :
People are 😩
2024-09-19 23:18:06
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altheahodgetts275
altheahodgetts275 :
What if they say you’re gaslighting! you jwant to make a way through the hurtful situation. If you’re willing to take responsibility and them to see they hold some as well?
2024-09-18 01:21:13
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callmenk795
callmenk795 :
I don't think They know they're doing it
2024-09-22 21:41:25
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bonniegreger
Bonnie :
For 23 years 🥰
2024-09-17 16:39:20
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giotto1320
Giotto1320🎈 :
This helps in more ways than you’d ever know. Thank you.
2024-09-04 15:07:45
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annesweeney3
Anne Sweeney :
But what if they gaslight you every day
2024-09-06 11:29:33
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jheltee
Jillybean :
Thank you!
2024-09-06 21:47:38
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allie8abug
Allie E :
I LITERALLY JUST did this, fell into the trap 😔
2024-09-29 14:56:16
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sianathon
Sianathon :
But what if you have justice sensitivity 😅
2024-09-04 14:49:32
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kayla_21_14
KaylaLeAnne :
What do these gaslighters gain by getting us flustered or mad? Why do they do this?
2024-09-05 06:43:33
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joangelasoliz
JoAngela Soliz :
This is my brother in law. I refuse to be around him anymore.
2024-09-04 14:53:08
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coriyopeace
Cori llopis :
Your content is eye opening. It’s inspiring and sets free so many ah ha moments. Ive grown and for that…. I thank you. (I enjoy your delivery)
2024-09-11 03:34:09
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holby1kenobi
Dani :
Can you please talk about people who project their guilt onto you? Accusing you of things that they’re doing??
2024-09-06 02:01:07
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normalonga4
Normalonga4 :
I started recording my meetings at work for the same reason…
2024-10-01 23:13:46
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whothatbitcboo
Mandyyy :
I’ve been gaslit sooo much that now, when it happens, I immediately break down in tears or I leave the room/conversation, I take a walk & come back when I’m able to handle it.
2024-09-04 16:41:47
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xoeys
XoeyS :
the moment I calm down and just agree.... I'm getting an attitude or now I'm gonna start acting crazy
2024-09-21 21:11:09
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lararose222
Lara Rose 🌹 :
Thank you 🙏
2024-09-06 14:23:11
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lady_proper
Lady_Proper :
They will also make you question your own memories and then use that against you as well. I was half convinced my memory was deteriorating until I examined other parts of my life.
2024-09-30 23:34:34
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drones_in_geomatics
AURA Geospatial :
it pays to stay calm all the time take good care of yourselves 😊
2024-09-04 21:57:52
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