@redditrave: I just got a surprise deposit from my college, but after months of paying my parents' bills, I'm hiding it from them even though our utilities are about to get cut off, and I feel pretty guilty about it. Posted by u/HorrorAd221 #redditrave #reddit #redditstories #redditreadings #askreddit
You are not responsible for your parents failure to manage their money.
2024-09-05 23:38:36
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mouse :
They can't garnish 100% of your paycheck.
2024-09-06 01:56:30
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HandsOfHatred :
….i don’t believe you. 🤨
2024-10-06 21:02:11
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Belle Duvall :
I would of kept my cards locked until I was about to use it in the moment so paranoid
2024-09-06 00:46:24
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dominicbrown1996 :
YTA. Family helps family
2024-09-06 14:48:13
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Amber GirlWhoNerds :
your parents are responsible for their rent and utilities, it's great to help out, but they can't expect you to take over entirely.
2024-09-05 23:46:52
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☆Chu☆ :
It’s called a refund check, where you have more money than needed and they reimburse what’s left over
2024-09-05 23:45:03
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Hails 🍉 :
Nah, I’d never talk to my dad again.
2024-09-05 23:40:18
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LEGGO & TRUE 💎 :
I feel for op I understand op's pain I'm sure the dad screwed everyone mentally
2024-09-06 16:43:49
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Shepard Command Jr. :
Op should consider cutting contact with his mom too since she won’t respect his boundaries of wanting to be no contact with his dad
2024-09-06 01:18:36
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Maraboo💖✨🥰 :
The dad should absolutely not move in. That’s a terrible idea
2024-09-06 01:26:26
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gojo’s left eye :
he shouldn’t let his dad move in, the dad needs to figure it out for himself
2024-09-05 23:52:43
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TMEZJ :
Toxic family situation. I hope the OP gets counseling and sets healthy boundaries
2024-09-06 01:09:19
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Vax/Alex :
Dudeee if I were them I’d never contact them again
2024-09-06 00:03:29
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Blueflamingo💙🦩 :
It's not your responsibility. It's ok to say NO hide it well
2024-09-05 23:56:15
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Cy :
never heard a reddit story with NB at the beginning! that's so cool 😭
2024-09-06 14:34:33
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Pumpkin :
why are the dad's checks garnished???
2024-09-06 16:30:36
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Lena13425 :
You don’t just not get a paycheck.. sth is off with your dad’s work.. also Nta
2024-09-06 14:35:08
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Avls_jes797 :
Hell no, I would not be his fall back, especially since he has not acknowledged his wrong doing
2024-09-06 00:53:57
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BratzBabyGrI :
this is exactly how my father was, it never got better. we eventually moved away from him cuz he was also abusive, but he was the only person who would work so he would control the money
2024-09-06 00:34:45
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Juniper🫐 :
Take it and run!
2024-09-06 00:23:27
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🫶 :
Im happy op gets out despite the Family not really allowing him to stay out. The dad misused OP’s trust so i wont blame op if he never forgives him
2024-09-06 07:01:48
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Calico_kat2001 :
It sounds like you need to have a sit down talk with your mom when you make it explicitly clear that her trying to force things between you and dad will only make you unhappy with her
2024-09-06 02:47:07
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TRINITY :
I wouldn’t say a gd word anymore
2024-09-06 01:32:48
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JaydenIsHangingOut :
My school paid me 600 the first week of classes for my scholarships which was higher than my cost
2024-09-06 00:08:35
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