It’s funny that this also applies to two autistic people because even around other neurodivergent people, they’ll try to use their understanding of neurotypical people 😭
2024-09-07 15:36:49
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Krystina🦋Amber :
Tbh I don’t think this is always a difference in neurotypes. Many people autistic or not, & esp older gens, have been socialized to just answer “I’m fine” rather than talking about their problems
2024-09-16 14:38:39
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Ayzee🦝 :
"i feel like we're speaking the same language but different languages" theirs is figurative speech ✨
2024-09-07 13:57:16
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Cassie :
And they say we have the communication issues
2024-09-07 16:50:53
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🧿🪬🪷Tiger 🐯🔥Flames 🪷🧿🪬 :
im austisic and I understand tone 👀
2024-09-07 13:59:49
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annaleegarretto :
I understand others tone, but I don’t ever know what my own tone sounds like. My husband will say I sound aggressive and mean but I don’t hear it in myself. But I hear it in others. It’s so hard.
2024-09-07 17:25:02
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LaffyGaffy :
same language different dialects,
2024-10-03 08:22:16
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PinkPunk🍉 :
I hate having to decode and read between the lines, why can’t people just say what they mean and mean what they say
2024-09-08 13:53:51
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grayson :
when I was a kid I was like "I understand sarcasm perfectly, I don't have trouble with it at all" and then when I got a little older I realized that people could be sarcastic without doing a funny
2024-09-09 19:01:35
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Kaykray125 :
As a theatre kid I got really good at using tone indicators in my speech but still struggle to interpret correctly in others especially if not fone in a dramatic way.
2024-09-07 15:09:05
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🚀 JCS_1701 🚀 :
It's a neurotypical world, and we're just suffering through it. 😩
2024-09-08 14:26:40
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Morgana :
I had a boss ask me "Are you ok?" instead of "How are you today?" and I was like "Do I look sick or something???" Because nobody expects a genuine answer to the 2nd one. it's just considered polite to
2024-09-10 04:49:28
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Ya boi :
Bro fr like I’m just telling you how I feel and what I need why can’t they do the same?? Why do I need to understand a ton of tiny little signals to know what you want???
2024-09-07 14:56:25
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Himham :
In my experience autistic people "understand tone" just fine. They just don't want to be treated like a lesser being for needing a bit of clarification or interacting with tone in novel ways.
2024-09-10 21:12:47
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UnlimitedHero :
"Try to understand each other"How is it difficult to understand that someone means the thing they said and will say if it was sarcasm,a joke etc?Like how is that difficult?
2024-09-07 18:25:29
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this guy :
So many times, people try to tell me what I really mean. LOL. Just listen to my exact words.
2024-09-09 13:33:32
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Sway Mi :
“Nah. You’re gonna have to figure it out” —oof
2024-09-08 14:26:24
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maeve!! :
I find it that some ppl visualize stuff, some people think of words to describe things, i can visualize too, but i cant for the life of me think of words. Alot of the time when im thinking i FEEL what
2024-09-10 01:10:22
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futt_buckrson :
I stopped playing along years ago. say the words you mean or don't say words.
2024-09-07 16:51:52
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Cl :
okay but genuinely, who says "I'm fine" and means that they aren't fine and want assistance?? outside of like, TV show characters??
2024-09-20 03:17:12
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🍉🜏Cherry🜏🍉 :
if they don't mean it then why do they say it 🥴
2024-09-21 09:14:17
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The Autistic Narcissist :
I gave up on this. I just respond to what they said. I actually pretend not to notice at this point when they start changing the tonality and inflection of their voice.
2024-09-07 18:33:57
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AlexWelly :
I think of it as same language, different dialects. You just need to learn the local slang and then you're fine!... except there's a LOT of it, and nobody is telling you what each word means, and they
2024-09-07 19:36:21
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