@sexedfiles: THE FIRST TIME IS NOT SUPPOSED HURT. In general, all 🌶️ activity should not be painful unless you want it to be. Pain during your first is usually from lack of l*brication, lack of before play, nervousness, anxiety, lack of communication, forced entry, and sometimes the position you’re in. S** is a learning process and for it to be enjoyable, you have to be aro*sed as well as understand your limits, and be able to clearly communicate them.  Here are some tips for reducing discomfort during your first: 🩷Before any partnered activity, take time to experiment on your own and discover the things that are ple*surable for you.  🩷Talk to your partner! Discuss what you like and don’t like, what you’re willing to try, and plans for safer activity. Make sure you trust your partner and are confident that they will respect your limits. 🩷Create an environment where you and your partner feel safe and open, and where you’re sure no one will accidentally barge in. This will help you relax.  🩷Warm up! Before action is a great way to relax your mind, increase body awareness, and experience ple*sure. It might include: making out, cuddling (clothed or unclothed), 🌶️ texting and more.  🩷Take your time. Use slow and gentle motions at first, and change it up if you both like.  🩷Give your body time to relax and grow accustomed to the feeling of s** (whatever kind you’re engaging in) 🩷Use lots of l*be.  🩷Experiment with your body positioning.  🩷Find a pace and rhythm that suits you both — there’s no need to rush. 🩷Check in with each other during. 🩷Stop or take a break if someone is uncomfortable or if it hurts. 🩷Talk to a doctor if pain is a consistent thing. #intimacy #relationshipadvice #relationshiptips #relationships

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