@atpeaceparents: Is it impossible to have a 1:1 conversation with your partner when your child is home? 🧐 Have you learned about Pathological Demand Avoidance or “Pervasive Drive for Autonomy” yet? Xo, Casey #pathologicaldemandavoidance #pervasivedriveforautonomy #parenting #explosivechild #adhdkids #neurodiversity #parentingtips #oppositionaldefiantdisorder #adhdchild

Casey Ehrlich, Ph.D.
Casey Ehrlich, Ph.D.
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katieerin814
Katie Erin 🍉 :
ok but why do they need my nervous system safety EVERY time my husband opens his mouth to speak. it's like they fear him having my attention 🫠
2024-09-10 18:45:38
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erinburtonritchie
erinburtonritchie🇨🇦 :
This is the second video I’ve watch where she has perfectly explained my child- and given me nothing to help it
2024-10-02 22:29:09
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savannahgonzales14
Savannah Gonzales :
Does this apply to 2 year olds? She demands my attention almost all day and explodes when she doesn’t get her way. It seems to get worse when I sit down and play with her, especially when I walk away
2024-09-13 00:57:27
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user_31773
user_31773 :
Yeah please give a solution
2024-09-10 22:26:27
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heyguys_itsmeagain
Jackie ✌️ :
Im also « not allowed » to talk on the phone 🤙
2024-09-11 02:15:24
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gkarsten4
Grace K :
What works with my child is: “hey love, I’m so excited to talk to you, you can hold my hand while I finish talking to daddy” and we started with reinforcing after only 1 second then increasing now monthsssss after beginning that strategy we can make it up to 10min
2024-09-10 19:37:59
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alishas_version
alishas_version :
how do you just end the video so abruptly 😫
2024-09-12 19:39:28
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jen_jain
Jennifer Dietz401 :
What’s the solution?
2024-09-10 18:46:57
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yuzumuzuxx
Denise Hille :
...okay, and how do we "fix" this??🙃
2024-10-09 09:32:25
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just.meemaw
Just Meemaw🌈 :
yeah, so what to do? my marriage is a trash fire right now because we have literally no time together just to BE. Our kiddo is homeschooled so home 24/7, as are both of us adults.
2024-09-10 18:48:44
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kwegner
Kyle :
I feel so seen. Our solution is to turn to our PDA son and say "I see that our voices might be frustrating for you, we can whisper." This helps many times even though the volume isn't the issue!
2024-09-10 19:42:56
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permanentvacationers
Carolyn :
Adding “having normal conversations with partner whenever I want” to my 1000+ reasons I’m
2024-09-11 06:05:34
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jessicajudy4
Jessica Judy :
An episode of Bluey taught us how to teach our toddler to put her hand on our arm when she wants to talk to us and then we put a hand on her hand to say we know she is there. It took practise!
2024-09-14 03:50:13
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meganstephens46
Megan Stephens :
we took Bluey advice and it works tremendously. she now puts a hand on my arm and I hers so she's knows that I know she'd like to talk! time varies but it's much calmer and I'm good with it.
2024-09-18 16:58:02
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donna.kbab
SpoonsLimited :
1/2 anything that takes my actual attention (using toilet, phone call, making school lunches/using knife chopping, answering front door) my 8 & 9yr kids then demand my attention.
2024-09-10 22:01:03
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mikayladorland
alyakim97 :
my husband and I put our marriage first. one day the kids will be gone. so they are told to wait and if they need to go sit in time out while they wait they can. I love when my husband says my wife 1s
2024-09-10 20:53:09
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katiemiller90
Katie Miller :
I like the part where she gives advice on how to handle it.
2024-09-19 02:32:47
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.videomaster
VideoMaster :
I taught my children to put their hand on my arm if I’m in a conversation. This is how I know they want something from me, & I’ll give them all my attention when I’m done talking. It works for us 🙂
2024-10-08 07:46:34
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witchninth
witch ninth :
not just my partner but literally anyone. i don’t even have relationships anymore
2024-09-11 17:22:48
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keemomster
Christina :
I taught mine to place their hand on mine if I'm having a convo, then to acknowledge them, I place my hand on theirs. Gives me time to finish convo and gives them "attention" until I'm ready for them
2024-09-11 17:02:39
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cherryextract
Cherryextract :
It’s like you are telling the story of our every day!
2024-09-10 19:05:43
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wanderlust959
Wanderlust :
What’s trying to “get “your” nervous system safety” mean?
2024-09-12 23:40:52
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sarahks118
SarahT :
So what do we do?
2024-09-11 13:28:40
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mrswookra
MrsWookra :
is there a part 2? cause I need the answer and am not seeing it. or I'm blind
2024-09-12 12:31:05
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